"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My no life GF is becoming a life coach.
- Thread starter Mesoherny
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Has she recovered herself and others from tramatic life hardships?
No. That 'profession' is for people to hand out useless gossip advice to morons looking for magic words to make the universe align to their liking just because hardships.
I told her to ask a life coach to pay her bills for her or ask a life coach to spew the same bs to their debt collectors and see how well that works.
Might as well ask for advice on here but none of the people offering life advice on here even agree.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahhh. So shes passing on gossip advice instead of advice met through hardships.
If someone has went through a hardship you can ask them and not pay money to a make believe storyteller. If you are sick you go to a doctor not the village witchdoctor for snake oil medicine.
I think ill dump her and she can recover from that hardship.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
marmel75
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Trolllioliolioliolioliolio....
If you're thinking about dumping her over this, then she's clearly not a gf you want anyways. If I had a gf who I really liked and she wanted to do something like this, I wouldn't dump her over it. It's not like she's trying to become a stripper.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
1. Cut of contact
2. Focus on women who are giving good attention
3. Stop complaining about it to friends and family
4. Lose the weight you gained why with her
5. Set half a dozen actionable items for improvement and chase them instead
6. Start fvcking new *****
Same as the advice we give here and none is useless
1. Cut of contact -I already decided on my own.
2. Focus on women who are giving good attention - Nothing to do with my gf wanting to become a life coach.
3. Stop complaining about it to friends and family- not complaining to friends or family. They dont even know.
4. Lose the weight you gained why with her - in gym everyday. Never was fat or overweight.
5. Set half a dozen actionable items for improvement and chase them instead - nothing to do with her wanting to become a life coach. Its not me doing nothing. Its her. But blame the man.
6. Start fvcking new ***** - still nothing to do with her wanting to become a life coach.
Same as the advice we give here and none is useless.
Advice here is free even if incorrect. I dont have to pay for it like a life coach expects. And still the advice isnt applicable or guaranteed or even always agreed upon.
Thanks
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
My advice was for a guy who got cheated on and left broken.
A life coach will be like going to a therapist or usi g a tutor. They are able to guide because they know the area. The one on one direct approach is powerful and they can keep you specifically on track. Im not against it if theyre helping people and not overcharging.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ranger
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Women really like that stuff. Let her be.