"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
My no life GF is becoming a life coach.
- Thread starter Mesoherny
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Has she recovered herself and others from tramatic life hardships?
No. That 'profession' is for people to hand out useless gossip advice to morons looking for magic words to make the universe align to their liking just because hardships.
I told her to ask a life coach to pay her bills for her or ask a life coach to spew the same bs to their debt collectors and see how well that works.
Might as well ask for advice on here but none of the people offering life advice on here even agree.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahhh. So shes passing on gossip advice instead of advice met through hardships.
If someone has went through a hardship you can ask them and not pay money to a make believe storyteller. If you are sick you go to a doctor not the village witchdoctor for snake oil medicine.
I think ill dump her and she can recover from that hardship.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
marmel75
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Trolllioliolioliolioliolio....
If you're thinking about dumping her over this, then she's clearly not a gf you want anyways. If I had a gf who I really liked and she wanted to do something like this, I wouldn't dump her over it. It's not like she's trying to become a stripper.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
1. Cut of contact
2. Focus on women who are giving good attention
3. Stop complaining about it to friends and family
4. Lose the weight you gained why with her
5. Set half a dozen actionable items for improvement and chase them instead
6. Start fvcking new *****
Same as the advice we give here and none is useless
1. Cut of contact -I already decided on my own.
2. Focus on women who are giving good attention - Nothing to do with my gf wanting to become a life coach.
3. Stop complaining about it to friends and family- not complaining to friends or family. They dont even know.
4. Lose the weight you gained why with her - in gym everyday. Never was fat or overweight.
5. Set half a dozen actionable items for improvement and chase them instead - nothing to do with her wanting to become a life coach. Its not me doing nothing. Its her. But blame the man.
6. Start fvcking new ***** - still nothing to do with her wanting to become a life coach.
Same as the advice we give here and none is useless.
Advice here is free even if incorrect. I dont have to pay for it like a life coach expects. And still the advice isnt applicable or guaranteed or even always agreed upon.
Thanks
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
My advice was for a guy who got cheated on and left broken.
A life coach will be like going to a therapist or usi g a tutor. They are able to guide because they know the area. The one on one direct approach is powerful and they can keep you specifically on track. Im not against it if theyre helping people and not overcharging.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ranger
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Women really like that stuff. Let her be.