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Don Juan
We all tend to view the world through our own lens of reality.
To some she may well be a 10. To me she is a cute 7.
To some she may well be a 10. To me she is a cute 7.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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He makes a good point. This is afterall "Anything Else".SmokeX said:
6-heads lewis
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Society's ranking systems are ridiculously off.
Somehow in a 1-10 scale, 7 became average, and 5 means ugly. If you ask people to rate themselves, most will say 8, which to them means 'above average', when in reality 8/10 is supermodel status. 9/10 is a Miss Universe contestant. 10/10 is practically impossible, even the Miss Universe winner isn't a 10.
If you rank someone a 7, you're saying they are in the top 30% of their peer group! Thats a great score, the kind that can get you an B-level entertainment career based mostly on your looks.
That girl is a 5, which is not instulting at all.
Somehow in a 1-10 scale, 7 became average, and 5 means ugly. If you ask people to rate themselves, most will say 8, which to them means 'above average', when in reality 8/10 is supermodel status. 9/10 is a Miss Universe contestant. 10/10 is practically impossible, even the Miss Universe winner isn't a 10.
If you rank someone a 7, you're saying they are in the top 30% of their peer group! Thats a great score, the kind that can get you an B-level entertainment career based mostly on your looks.
That girl is a 5, which is not instulting at all.
6-heads lewis
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Good point, I hadn't thought of that. It always pissed me off that I have to get a 2.0 GPA in school (which is like 65%), even though the cut-off mark is 50%.Mctwist4 said:
Deus, I used Miss Universe only because it is a universal (ha!) example of beauty and it was easy to use as an example, not for any personal reason.
My personal 10s are pornstars Ice La Fox or Courtney Devine (with bigger boobs for both), or Carmen Hayes. Yum.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I don't like red heads and she's a bit chubby. You guys have lower standards than me... she looks a bit young 13-14 and your 18!? wtf... uhhh I would say she's 4-6/10 just cuz the picture isn't good well at least she's got a nick rack. I'd hit that after 10 beers.
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She's 18. I'll see if I can dig though my collections of pictures and show you a better one of my mate's girl.
Edit: http://24.226.38.2/_Cloak/Vanessa.jpg, FYI six months old
She's 18. I'll see if I can dig though my collections of pictures and show you a better one of my mate's girl.
Edit: http://24.226.38.2/_Cloak/Vanessa.jpg, FYI six months old
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"This message is hidden because SmokeX is on your ignore list."
Ah, I love the ignore list! I don't know why I didn't start using it earlier. It makes visiting SoSuave much more pleasant.
edit: My apologies for the rude comment. I shouldn't have been so absurd about it.
Ah, I love the ignore list! I don't know why I didn't start using it earlier. It makes visiting SoSuave much more pleasant.
edit: My apologies for the rude comment. I shouldn't have been so absurd about it.
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6-heads lewis
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Wow what an honor, my first ignore list!
Id like to thank...
Id like to thank...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SmokeX
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Slevin - Apparently so. hahaSlevin said:
Like I said in the thread, She's 5'11" and 125 pounds, which is not fat at all :|, Shes ot some abs ^_^ and she is 18 a few months older than me. And yes she makes me happy. And no I am not a homo, I am bisexual, for those of you who don't know what that means, I like both guys and girls.
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:yes:TheNewGuy said:
No. In another thread, SmokeX claimed that he was a homosexual. I think it's somewhat disturbing having a GAY member on the SoSuave forum. Especially since this is not GaySuave.Slevin said:
Anyway, I only ignore people who are blatantly GAY, make harsh or negative comments, and/or don't post anything worthwhile.
Congratulations, you make 25.
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Oh gawd.
I don't have anything bad to say about gay people, but anyone who is gay here should know what most of the members of this forum think about it. Don't expect people here who have a problem with it to keep quiet or put up with it. Like I said, if you're gay then that's you and I personally don't have a problem with it....but I strongly suggest you join a forum where most people won't have a problem with who you are.
I don't have anything bad to say about gay people, but anyone who is gay here should know what most of the members of this forum think about it. Don't expect people here who have a problem with it to keep quiet or put up with it. Like I said, if you're gay then that's you and I personally don't have a problem with it....but I strongly suggest you join a forum where most people won't have a problem with who you are.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Haha I never said I was completly gay lol, I am bisexual. LoL
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There is no such thing as "bisexual" - the perverted homo act supercedes all other labels and thus the homo pervert label!!!
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My girlfriend
by Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-19-2007 08:38 PM
yeah... once you see ^that^ in the index... you better expect something mean.
now i'm glad i got on your case about you both being hypocritical trolls.
but its fine if you want to give your advice on how to get not-hot chicks... and how to "bang em"... go ahead.
notice i didn't say ugly... i don't wanna be mean about it... oops... i just said it.
My girlfriend
by Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-19-2007 08:38 PM
yeah... once you see ^that^ in the index... you better expect something mean.
the funny thing is.... is that you just made his girl look worse than the pictures that he posted.Docs said:
now i'm glad i got on your case about you both being hypocritical trolls.
but its fine if you want to give your advice on how to get not-hot chicks... and how to "bang em"... go ahead.
notice i didn't say ugly... i don't wanna be mean about it... oops... i just said it.
4.5, just not my type whatsoever.
I like them golden tanned with blonde hair, or latinas (the olive skin and dark hair).
She is pasty white, with red hair, and sorta chubby.
Dont get me wrong, if your happy, you can be happier with her than I am with a 9, but thats just my choice.
I like them golden tanned with blonde hair, or latinas (the olive skin and dark hair).
She is pasty white, with red hair, and sorta chubby.
Dont get me wrong, if your happy, you can be happier with her than I am with a 9, but thats just my choice.
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Mic L'A: I don't except NOR care that you don't like her. You're entitled to an opinion of her, that's fine. Gloating about yourself as ignorantly as you just did however, isnt fine. Understand there's a fine line between telling me how it is, and just looking like an idiot.
But right, my advice is sub-standard to yours! I forgot about that. It's too bad I don't care about your standards of girls!
But right, my advice is sub-standard to yours! I forgot about that. It's too bad I don't care about your standards of girls!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.