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Don Juan
We all tend to view the world through our own lens of reality.
To some she may well be a 10. To me she is a cute 7.
To some she may well be a 10. To me she is a cute 7.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My girlfriend
- Thread starter SmokeX
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Master Don Juan
He makes a good point. This is afterall "Anything Else".SmokeX said:
6-heads lewis
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Society's ranking systems are ridiculously off.
Somehow in a 1-10 scale, 7 became average, and 5 means ugly. If you ask people to rate themselves, most will say 8, which to them means 'above average', when in reality 8/10 is supermodel status. 9/10 is a Miss Universe contestant. 10/10 is practically impossible, even the Miss Universe winner isn't a 10.
If you rank someone a 7, you're saying they are in the top 30% of their peer group! Thats a great score, the kind that can get you an B-level entertainment career based mostly on your looks.
That girl is a 5, which is not instulting at all.
Somehow in a 1-10 scale, 7 became average, and 5 means ugly. If you ask people to rate themselves, most will say 8, which to them means 'above average', when in reality 8/10 is supermodel status. 9/10 is a Miss Universe contestant. 10/10 is practically impossible, even the Miss Universe winner isn't a 10.
If you rank someone a 7, you're saying they are in the top 30% of their peer group! Thats a great score, the kind that can get you an B-level entertainment career based mostly on your looks.
That girl is a 5, which is not instulting at all.
6-heads lewis
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Good point, I hadn't thought of that. It always pissed me off that I have to get a 2.0 GPA in school (which is like 65%), even though the cut-off mark is 50%.Mctwist4 said:
Deus, I used Miss Universe only because it is a universal (ha!) example of beauty and it was easy to use as an example, not for any personal reason.
My personal 10s are pornstars Ice La Fox or Courtney Devine (with bigger boobs for both), or Carmen Hayes. Yum.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't like red heads and she's a bit chubby. You guys have lower standards than me... she looks a bit young 13-14 and your 18!? wtf... uhhh I would say she's 4-6/10 just cuz the picture isn't good well at least she's got a nick rack. I'd hit that after 10 beers.
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She's 18. I'll see if I can dig though my collections of pictures and show you a better one of my mate's girl.
Edit: http://24.226.38.2/_Cloak/Vanessa.jpg, FYI six months old
She's 18. I'll see if I can dig though my collections of pictures and show you a better one of my mate's girl.
Edit: http://24.226.38.2/_Cloak/Vanessa.jpg, FYI six months old
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"This message is hidden because SmokeX is on your ignore list."
Ah, I love the ignore list! I don't know why I didn't start using it earlier. It makes visiting SoSuave much more pleasant.
edit: My apologies for the rude comment. I shouldn't have been so absurd about it.
Ah, I love the ignore list! I don't know why I didn't start using it earlier. It makes visiting SoSuave much more pleasant.
edit: My apologies for the rude comment. I shouldn't have been so absurd about it.
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6-heads lewis
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Wow what an honor, my first ignore list!
Id like to thank...
Id like to thank...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SmokeX
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Slevin - Apparently so. hahaSlevin said:
Like I said in the thread, She's 5'11" and 125 pounds, which is not fat at all :|, Shes ot some abs ^_^ and she is 18 a few months older than me. And yes she makes me happy. And no I am not a homo, I am bisexual, for those of you who don't know what that means, I like both guys and girls.
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:yes:TheNewGuy said:
No. In another thread, SmokeX claimed that he was a homosexual. I think it's somewhat disturbing having a GAY member on the SoSuave forum. Especially since this is not GaySuave.Slevin said:
Anyway, I only ignore people who are blatantly GAY, make harsh or negative comments, and/or don't post anything worthwhile.
Congratulations, you make 25.
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Oh gawd.
I don't have anything bad to say about gay people, but anyone who is gay here should know what most of the members of this forum think about it. Don't expect people here who have a problem with it to keep quiet or put up with it. Like I said, if you're gay then that's you and I personally don't have a problem with it....but I strongly suggest you join a forum where most people won't have a problem with who you are.
I don't have anything bad to say about gay people, but anyone who is gay here should know what most of the members of this forum think about it. Don't expect people here who have a problem with it to keep quiet or put up with it. Like I said, if you're gay then that's you and I personally don't have a problem with it....but I strongly suggest you join a forum where most people won't have a problem with who you are.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Haha I never said I was completly gay lol, I am bisexual. LoL
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There is no such thing as "bisexual" - the perverted homo act supercedes all other labels and thus the homo pervert label!!!
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My girlfriend
by Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-19-2007 08:38 PM
yeah... once you see ^that^ in the index... you better expect something mean.
now i'm glad i got on your case about you both being hypocritical trolls.
but its fine if you want to give your advice on how to get not-hot chicks... and how to "bang em"... go ahead.
notice i didn't say ugly... i don't wanna be mean about it... oops... i just said it.
My girlfriend
by Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-19-2007 08:38 PM
yeah... once you see ^that^ in the index... you better expect something mean.
the funny thing is.... is that you just made his girl look worse than the pictures that he posted.Docs said:
now i'm glad i got on your case about you both being hypocritical trolls.
but its fine if you want to give your advice on how to get not-hot chicks... and how to "bang em"... go ahead.
notice i didn't say ugly... i don't wanna be mean about it... oops... i just said it.
4.5, just not my type whatsoever.
I like them golden tanned with blonde hair, or latinas (the olive skin and dark hair).
She is pasty white, with red hair, and sorta chubby.
Dont get me wrong, if your happy, you can be happier with her than I am with a 9, but thats just my choice.
I like them golden tanned with blonde hair, or latinas (the olive skin and dark hair).
She is pasty white, with red hair, and sorta chubby.
Dont get me wrong, if your happy, you can be happier with her than I am with a 9, but thats just my choice.
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Mic L'A: I don't except NOR care that you don't like her. You're entitled to an opinion of her, that's fine. Gloating about yourself as ignorantly as you just did however, isnt fine. Understand there's a fine line between telling me how it is, and just looking like an idiot.
But right, my advice is sub-standard to yours! I forgot about that. It's too bad I don't care about your standards of girls!
But right, my advice is sub-standard to yours! I forgot about that. It's too bad I don't care about your standards of girls!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.