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Don Juan
We all tend to view the world through our own lens of reality.
To some she may well be a 10. To me she is a cute 7.
To some she may well be a 10. To me she is a cute 7.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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He makes a good point. This is afterall "Anything Else".SmokeX said:
6-heads lewis
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Society's ranking systems are ridiculously off.
Somehow in a 1-10 scale, 7 became average, and 5 means ugly. If you ask people to rate themselves, most will say 8, which to them means 'above average', when in reality 8/10 is supermodel status. 9/10 is a Miss Universe contestant. 10/10 is practically impossible, even the Miss Universe winner isn't a 10.
If you rank someone a 7, you're saying they are in the top 30% of their peer group! Thats a great score, the kind that can get you an B-level entertainment career based mostly on your looks.
That girl is a 5, which is not instulting at all.
Somehow in a 1-10 scale, 7 became average, and 5 means ugly. If you ask people to rate themselves, most will say 8, which to them means 'above average', when in reality 8/10 is supermodel status. 9/10 is a Miss Universe contestant. 10/10 is practically impossible, even the Miss Universe winner isn't a 10.
If you rank someone a 7, you're saying they are in the top 30% of their peer group! Thats a great score, the kind that can get you an B-level entertainment career based mostly on your looks.
That girl is a 5, which is not instulting at all.
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Good point, I hadn't thought of that. It always pissed me off that I have to get a 2.0 GPA in school (which is like 65%), even though the cut-off mark is 50%.Mctwist4 said:
Deus, I used Miss Universe only because it is a universal (ha!) example of beauty and it was easy to use as an example, not for any personal reason.
My personal 10s are pornstars Ice La Fox or Courtney Devine (with bigger boobs for both), or Carmen Hayes. Yum.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I don't like red heads and she's a bit chubby. You guys have lower standards than me... she looks a bit young 13-14 and your 18!? wtf... uhhh I would say she's 4-6/10 just cuz the picture isn't good well at least she's got a nick rack. I'd hit that after 10 beers.
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She's 18. I'll see if I can dig though my collections of pictures and show you a better one of my mate's girl.
Edit: http://24.226.38.2/_Cloak/Vanessa.jpg, FYI six months old
She's 18. I'll see if I can dig though my collections of pictures and show you a better one of my mate's girl.
Edit: http://24.226.38.2/_Cloak/Vanessa.jpg, FYI six months old
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"This message is hidden because SmokeX is on your ignore list."
Ah, I love the ignore list! I don't know why I didn't start using it earlier. It makes visiting SoSuave much more pleasant.
edit: My apologies for the rude comment. I shouldn't have been so absurd about it.
Ah, I love the ignore list! I don't know why I didn't start using it earlier. It makes visiting SoSuave much more pleasant.
edit: My apologies for the rude comment. I shouldn't have been so absurd about it.
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6-heads lewis
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Wow what an honor, my first ignore list!
Id like to thank...
Id like to thank...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Slevin - Apparently so. hahaSlevin said:
Like I said in the thread, She's 5'11" and 125 pounds, which is not fat at all :|, Shes ot some abs ^_^ and she is 18 a few months older than me. And yes she makes me happy. And no I am not a homo, I am bisexual, for those of you who don't know what that means, I like both guys and girls.
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:yes:TheNewGuy said:
No. In another thread, SmokeX claimed that he was a homosexual. I think it's somewhat disturbing having a GAY member on the SoSuave forum. Especially since this is not GaySuave.Slevin said:
Anyway, I only ignore people who are blatantly GAY, make harsh or negative comments, and/or don't post anything worthwhile.
Congratulations, you make 25.
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Oh gawd.
I don't have anything bad to say about gay people, but anyone who is gay here should know what most of the members of this forum think about it. Don't expect people here who have a problem with it to keep quiet or put up with it. Like I said, if you're gay then that's you and I personally don't have a problem with it....but I strongly suggest you join a forum where most people won't have a problem with who you are.
I don't have anything bad to say about gay people, but anyone who is gay here should know what most of the members of this forum think about it. Don't expect people here who have a problem with it to keep quiet or put up with it. Like I said, if you're gay then that's you and I personally don't have a problem with it....but I strongly suggest you join a forum where most people won't have a problem with who you are.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Haha I never said I was completly gay lol, I am bisexual. LoL
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There is no such thing as "bisexual" - the perverted homo act supercedes all other labels and thus the homo pervert label!!!
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by Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-19-2007 08:38 PM
yeah... once you see ^that^ in the index... you better expect something mean.
now i'm glad i got on your case about you both being hypocritical trolls.
but its fine if you want to give your advice on how to get not-hot chicks... and how to "bang em"... go ahead.
notice i didn't say ugly... i don't wanna be mean about it... oops... i just said it.
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by Michele, l'Arcangelo
03-19-2007 08:38 PM
yeah... once you see ^that^ in the index... you better expect something mean.
the funny thing is.... is that you just made his girl look worse than the pictures that he posted.Docs said:
now i'm glad i got on your case about you both being hypocritical trolls.
but its fine if you want to give your advice on how to get not-hot chicks... and how to "bang em"... go ahead.
notice i didn't say ugly... i don't wanna be mean about it... oops... i just said it.
4.5, just not my type whatsoever.
I like them golden tanned with blonde hair, or latinas (the olive skin and dark hair).
She is pasty white, with red hair, and sorta chubby.
Dont get me wrong, if your happy, you can be happier with her than I am with a 9, but thats just my choice.
I like them golden tanned with blonde hair, or latinas (the olive skin and dark hair).
She is pasty white, with red hair, and sorta chubby.
Dont get me wrong, if your happy, you can be happier with her than I am with a 9, but thats just my choice.
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Mic L'A: I don't except NOR care that you don't like her. You're entitled to an opinion of her, that's fine. Gloating about yourself as ignorantly as you just did however, isnt fine. Understand there's a fine line between telling me how it is, and just looking like an idiot.
But right, my advice is sub-standard to yours! I forgot about that. It's too bad I don't care about your standards of girls!
But right, my advice is sub-standard to yours! I forgot about that. It's too bad I don't care about your standards of girls!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.