"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My GF is cheating with a married man. I'll be out sarging tonight!

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She says shes with a friend but I know she is with another man. I'm very sure they just went for a few drinks and no ****ing but who the crap knows.

So tonight I'm gonna get the sargingwheel going early and don't procrastinate on approaching. Get my feet wet early and approaches will be a piece of cake from there.

I'll be back tomorrow with a field rapport.

-Target
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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prairiedog24

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On the flip side being suspicious about her going out "for a few drinks" with another guy isn't exactly confidence exuding behavior. You may be right that's she's grazing on the other side of the fence, and obviously you know your gf best, but it's possible you're just being jealous and controlling.

Heck, I have a coffee date WITH A MARRIED WOMAN next week, if her husband used this standard there would be an issue. /shrug

Assuming your assessment is correct however, good job man, you've got the right attitude. I agree with Captain.
 

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Everybody is waiting for an update on this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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UPDATE: I'm pretty pretty sure she didn't **** him today, but she said she was out with a female friend which I know isn't correct, so in my book that is cheating.

As for the field report: I made about 6-7 cold approaches. None worked out any good. Got one phone number from a young brown girl and texted some with a girl I knew briefly before that said we should meet for coffee some day. To recap: I didn't achieve ****. Strangely I feel good anyway. No frustration at all.

I have 74 more women to make love with and I know it will happen.
 

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I've fukced 26 girls. One was fat but with huge boobs. About 8-9 were premium. Two or three were 10's. The rest were average but not in any way ugly. Which in my book is what I can expect based on my own looks. (Average).

I didn't score tonight. What makes me happy is that my confidence is increasing every day, and that's what matters the most for me as of now.
 

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You accoplished more than you think. You approached, while you probably werent in the best mood either. You got a number and possibly a day 2. And most importantly, you took correct action immediately upon being disrespected by your chick. I'd say thats pretty good.
 

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I wanna thank you all for the positive feedback. I was expecting flame to be honest.

In my book phone numbers are not worth much. To take a girl home 1 on 1 that night is what does it for me. My F-close ratio from #closes on town is about 5%.

This is what I need to focus on:

1. Get a girl home to my place that night
2. Better follow-up of my #closes. I waste a lot by waiting too long
3. Seek other places to meet chicks. Like evening-school and such
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whats wrong with you guys? its like you are racing to fuk as many women as possible. like you are gonna get a medal. what's the point? why do you need to fuk so many women?
 

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tony-montana said:
whats wrong with you guys? its like you are racing to fuk as many women as possible. like you are gonna get a medal. what's the point? why do you need to fuk so many women?

Human nature
 

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Fat girls need love too...but they gotta pay!

-Quagmire, Family Guy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Target_100 said:
I've fukced 26 girls. One was fat but with huge boobs. About 8-9 were premium. Two or three were 10's. The rest were average but not in any way ugly. Which in my book is what I can expect based on my own looks. (Average).

I didn't score tonight. What makes me happy is that my confidence is increasing every day, and that's what matters the most for me as of now.
Huge boobs, or just sacks of fat?
 

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So are you going to dump your gf or keep her around just in case?

If you're confident enough with being able to get something better, I'd say 'dump her'
 

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Target, I wish I had your form right now.

I'm still recovering from the being cheated on thing; my suspicions proved bang on correct and although I'm well past wanting her back, I'm kinda caught up on the whole vengeance angle and I'm not doing things for me.

Keep us posted, hope to follow your trail.
 

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Captain said:
Good on you. It's nice to see a post about a cheating girlfriend that doesn't involve the guy asking us how he can get her back, or what he did wrong, or if they really are cheating.
Agreed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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