"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My GF is cheating with a married man. I'll be out sarging tonight!

Target_100

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She says shes with a friend but I know she is with another man. I'm very sure they just went for a few drinks and no ****ing but who the crap knows.

So tonight I'm gonna get the sargingwheel going early and don't procrastinate on approaching. Get my feet wet early and approaches will be a piece of cake from there.

I'll be back tomorrow with a field rapport.

-Target
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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prairiedog24

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On the flip side being suspicious about her going out "for a few drinks" with another guy isn't exactly confidence exuding behavior. You may be right that's she's grazing on the other side of the fence, and obviously you know your gf best, but it's possible you're just being jealous and controlling.

Heck, I have a coffee date WITH A MARRIED WOMAN next week, if her husband used this standard there would be an issue. /shrug

Assuming your assessment is correct however, good job man, you've got the right attitude. I agree with Captain.
 

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Everybody is waiting for an update on this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Target_100

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UPDATE: I'm pretty pretty sure she didn't **** him today, but she said she was out with a female friend which I know isn't correct, so in my book that is cheating.

As for the field report: I made about 6-7 cold approaches. None worked out any good. Got one phone number from a young brown girl and texted some with a girl I knew briefly before that said we should meet for coffee some day. To recap: I didn't achieve ****. Strangely I feel good anyway. No frustration at all.

I have 74 more women to make love with and I know it will happen.
 

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I've fukced 26 girls. One was fat but with huge boobs. About 8-9 were premium. Two or three were 10's. The rest were average but not in any way ugly. Which in my book is what I can expect based on my own looks. (Average).

I didn't score tonight. What makes me happy is that my confidence is increasing every day, and that's what matters the most for me as of now.
 

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You accoplished more than you think. You approached, while you probably werent in the best mood either. You got a number and possibly a day 2. And most importantly, you took correct action immediately upon being disrespected by your chick. I'd say thats pretty good.
 

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I wanna thank you all for the positive feedback. I was expecting flame to be honest.

In my book phone numbers are not worth much. To take a girl home 1 on 1 that night is what does it for me. My F-close ratio from #closes on town is about 5%.

This is what I need to focus on:

1. Get a girl home to my place that night
2. Better follow-up of my #closes. I waste a lot by waiting too long
3. Seek other places to meet chicks. Like evening-school and such
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tony-montana

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whats wrong with you guys? its like you are racing to fuk as many women as possible. like you are gonna get a medal. what's the point? why do you need to fuk so many women?
 

Target_100

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tony-montana said:
whats wrong with you guys? its like you are racing to fuk as many women as possible. like you are gonna get a medal. what's the point? why do you need to fuk so many women?

Human nature
 

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Fat girls need love too...but they gotta pay!

-Quagmire, Family Guy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Target_100 said:
I've fukced 26 girls. One was fat but with huge boobs. About 8-9 were premium. Two or three were 10's. The rest were average but not in any way ugly. Which in my book is what I can expect based on my own looks. (Average).

I didn't score tonight. What makes me happy is that my confidence is increasing every day, and that's what matters the most for me as of now.
Huge boobs, or just sacks of fat?
 

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So are you going to dump your gf or keep her around just in case?

If you're confident enough with being able to get something better, I'd say 'dump her'
 

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Target, I wish I had your form right now.

I'm still recovering from the being cheated on thing; my suspicions proved bang on correct and although I'm well past wanting her back, I'm kinda caught up on the whole vengeance angle and I'm not doing things for me.

Keep us posted, hope to follow your trail.
 

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Captain said:
Good on you. It's nice to see a post about a cheating girlfriend that doesn't involve the guy asking us how he can get her back, or what he did wrong, or if they really are cheating.
Agreed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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