"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My GF is cheating with a married man. I'll be out sarging tonight!

Target_100

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She says shes with a friend but I know she is with another man. I'm very sure they just went for a few drinks and no ****ing but who the crap knows.

So tonight I'm gonna get the sargingwheel going early and don't procrastinate on approaching. Get my feet wet early and approaches will be a piece of cake from there.

I'll be back tomorrow with a field rapport.

-Target
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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prairiedog24

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On the flip side being suspicious about her going out "for a few drinks" with another guy isn't exactly confidence exuding behavior. You may be right that's she's grazing on the other side of the fence, and obviously you know your gf best, but it's possible you're just being jealous and controlling.

Heck, I have a coffee date WITH A MARRIED WOMAN next week, if her husband used this standard there would be an issue. /shrug

Assuming your assessment is correct however, good job man, you've got the right attitude. I agree with Captain.
 

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Everybody is waiting for an update on this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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UPDATE: I'm pretty pretty sure she didn't **** him today, but she said she was out with a female friend which I know isn't correct, so in my book that is cheating.

As for the field report: I made about 6-7 cold approaches. None worked out any good. Got one phone number from a young brown girl and texted some with a girl I knew briefly before that said we should meet for coffee some day. To recap: I didn't achieve ****. Strangely I feel good anyway. No frustration at all.

I have 74 more women to make love with and I know it will happen.
 

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I've fukced 26 girls. One was fat but with huge boobs. About 8-9 were premium. Two or three were 10's. The rest were average but not in any way ugly. Which in my book is what I can expect based on my own looks. (Average).

I didn't score tonight. What makes me happy is that my confidence is increasing every day, and that's what matters the most for me as of now.
 

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You accoplished more than you think. You approached, while you probably werent in the best mood either. You got a number and possibly a day 2. And most importantly, you took correct action immediately upon being disrespected by your chick. I'd say thats pretty good.
 

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I wanna thank you all for the positive feedback. I was expecting flame to be honest.

In my book phone numbers are not worth much. To take a girl home 1 on 1 that night is what does it for me. My F-close ratio from #closes on town is about 5%.

This is what I need to focus on:

1. Get a girl home to my place that night
2. Better follow-up of my #closes. I waste a lot by waiting too long
3. Seek other places to meet chicks. Like evening-school and such
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whats wrong with you guys? its like you are racing to fuk as many women as possible. like you are gonna get a medal. what's the point? why do you need to fuk so many women?
 

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tony-montana said:
whats wrong with you guys? its like you are racing to fuk as many women as possible. like you are gonna get a medal. what's the point? why do you need to fuk so many women?

Human nature
 

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Fat girls need love too...but they gotta pay!

-Quagmire, Family Guy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Target_100 said:
I've fukced 26 girls. One was fat but with huge boobs. About 8-9 were premium. Two or three were 10's. The rest were average but not in any way ugly. Which in my book is what I can expect based on my own looks. (Average).

I didn't score tonight. What makes me happy is that my confidence is increasing every day, and that's what matters the most for me as of now.
Huge boobs, or just sacks of fat?
 

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So are you going to dump your gf or keep her around just in case?

If you're confident enough with being able to get something better, I'd say 'dump her'
 

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Target, I wish I had your form right now.

I'm still recovering from the being cheated on thing; my suspicions proved bang on correct and although I'm well past wanting her back, I'm kinda caught up on the whole vengeance angle and I'm not doing things for me.

Keep us posted, hope to follow your trail.
 

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Captain said:
Good on you. It's nice to see a post about a cheating girlfriend that doesn't involve the guy asking us how he can get her back, or what he did wrong, or if they really are cheating.
Agreed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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