"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
My gf had an abortion in the past.....what does that say about her?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
What you're dating is her. Not her decisions that she made previously in her life. If you feel that you can't live with some of the things that she's done, then go ahead and move on to the next person. If you feel as though value her over her mistakes, then keep the girl around. Don't expect that anybody on this board will be qualified to make these decisions for you, though. Hope this helps a bit.
Walden
Master Don Juan
What a tool.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Either way, I see your question as a poll, not a "what should I do."
For me, I would presume that whatever happened had been a tremendously difficult time for her (if she seemed shallow enough that it wouldn't have been tough, that would factor in).
Otherwise, it is not a big deal to me.
Player_Supreme
Banned
So!
It has nothing to do with you.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
There might be a myriad of circumstances in a person's life that would present abortion as a good choice, and it's not up to you to judge that person. Besides, your argument is purely emotional and invalid as it depends on your belief when life begins.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Really? She got pregnant AAAAAAALL by herself?
Grow up Bunny-Boy! Unless there's some new trick of biology, a guy was present at some point of the conception. It was the fault of TWO people that she got pregnant. You have no idea what dynamic was at work in their relationship at the time. He may have been insistant and paid for the abortion, he might have dumped her. Either way, he wasn't stuck paying child support for the next 18 years.
I think adoption is the perfect option, but being pregnant for 9 months, going to school, dealing with friends, enemies and family can be an overwhelming thing. You'll be able to tell if she's a skank that uses abortion for birth control or if she is a good person caught in a bad situation.
Soma
Banned
It means she likes to fvck bareback style. God bless her slvtty little heart.
I think I'm in love.
Soma
Banned
I always wonder when people say what you just did...
You kill things all day. The very act of living causes suffering and death all around you. The meat you eat. The clothes you wear. Even if you're a vegetarian you're still killing plants. Your body is constantly killing intruding organisms. When you walk in the grass you often step on ants, snails, etc.. Life is life is life and no matter big or small you're snuffing it out, day in and day out.
Why are you ok with that and not ok with killing a human fetus? I'll go one step further and ask, why are you ok with that and not ok with killing a fully grown human? Yes, we are at the top of the food chain, so to speak. Yes, we are more "intelligent", technically, than the animals that inhabit this world. But why do you think humans have more "value"? What determines that "value"?
I'm not asking a general question. When I say "you" I don't mean people in general, I mean YOU.
I'm not saying either is wrong or right I'm just wondering why you think the way you do.
-Soma
tiburon
Banned
This is what it says :
1-) She aint a virgin Eintein
2-) She was honest with you at that time
3-) She does not strongly believe in antibortion laws.........
4-) she could have some drama and trauma inside of her because of the experience that you might not want to deal with!
KEEP IT SIMPLE AND CASUAL!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
it is pretty common place in Australia with the girls that liv la vida loca or when accidents happen as they say
ok your gf will probably have mental and emotional scars from the whole thing
chicks know its murder, right or wrong whatever, whoevers fault it was
she most likely feels a deep sense of guilt and shame concerning this matter
i dont think it's any reason to dump a girl if you really love her and are happy with her.
we have all made mistakes in life.
who are we really to judge others never having walked in their shoes ?
have you had a doctor remove a baby through an abortion procedure from your womb ?
she has to live with that and that is a heavy burden to carry
but none of us can change our past or else we would all be millionaires
peace,
Lost In Translation
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.