"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My game doesn't work on ugly girls

antidonjuan

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Average looking and good looking girls have interest in me. However I discovered that I am getting more and more disliked by my ugly, nerdy female friends for some reason.

For some reason ugly girls hate my confident ****y attitude, I am afraid that some day they will say bad things about me.

Whenever I flirt with girls with my ****y attitude, those ugly female friends interpret it as disrespect.

I wanna ditch my group (lunch) because half of them are nerdy and dont understand my game; but I share similar academic interest as them.

What should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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theunflushables

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Trade them in. You don't hang on to you crappy 89 Toyota Carolla just because it gets decent gas mileage. You can find something just as sleek and hell maybe even better gas mileage. You won't know until you test drive it.
 

jon3947

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who cares if they dont like u
 

defiancy

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Well like Jon I'll say who cares. Also, an arrogant approach is not a great one. If its ****y funny its fine, but straight up ****y just labels you as a person who's full of himself. You might be overdoing the ****iness. For the most part even ugly nerdy girls should at least be decent to you if you're not going overboard.
 

SinJester

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If they were friends before you started becoming a DJ (were they?) then they wont like your change. They would like to pin you down into staying the same person.

Don't worry about it.

Treat the like you do the other girls without showing too much interest and it should go away. Make them laugh.

By the way you don't have to ditch them completely, just split your time between groups.

I might be right but I might not have enough information.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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War Against Betaism

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I've actually noticed this too; the uglier girls respond to my ****y attitude much more lowly than beautiful girls do. I've learned to adapt to different women because of this.
 

SinJester

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War Against Betaism said:
I've actually noticed this too; the uglier girls respond to my ****y attitude much more lowly than beautiful girls do. I've learned to adapt to different women because of this.
Unfortunately for me my c/f works on uglies too ;)
 

comic_relief

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antidonjuan said:
What should I do?
it happens, people don't like change. Hell most people would rather die then change. They fear change.

you on the other hand, you embrace change as a natural progression.

They fear as you become a new person, that you will leave them behind in favor of something new. They know that they have less to offer (looks-wise) and are scared of losing you.

Instead of leaving them behind, bring up with you. Lead by example and continually invite them to hang out.

comic_relief
 
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