Emperiorjack
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He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My freind swears this works
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Emperiorjack
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Cause I dont think im the type that could pull this off.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Say even the most AFC remark with confidence that oozes out of your pores, it will work.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
If it can work on your aunt, it can work on any woman.
DJHoolahoop
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There's a difference between "saying" "you're beautiful, you're going to be the one entertaining me tonight" and "your beauty makes me want to do anything just to be able to hang out with you"
Two subconscious distinctions from simply saying "Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen."
Two subconscious distinctions from simply saying "Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen."
MightyMate
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This may work..
On ugly chicks.
On ugly chicks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LeviathanIYG
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All the guys saying it won’t work
You guys read too much of this DJ stuff.
YES THIS CAN WORK!
I use it sometimes (only when the girl really is beautiful) and it works.
It depends on how you say it and by whom it is said.
If you ooze out confidence and masculinity it will work.
BUT BE WARNED!!!
If you are a beginner you should not use these kind of lines otherwise you will come off looking like a AFC.
This kind of romantic stuff is not for all!!
It also depends on the girl it would have less chance of working on a 18 year old slut then on a 24 year old woman.
You guys read too much of this DJ stuff.
YES THIS CAN WORK!
I use it sometimes (only when the girl really is beautiful) and it works.
It depends on how you say it and by whom it is said.
If you ooze out confidence and masculinity it will work.
BUT BE WARNED!!!
If you are a beginner you should not use these kind of lines otherwise you will come off looking like a AFC.
This kind of romantic stuff is not for all!!
It also depends on the girl it would have less chance of working on a 18 year old slut then on a 24 year old woman.
KarmaSutra
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What I've been saying for the longest time and have had very, VERY good results is:
"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."
Not only does this have a drastic effect on her on totally different levels and make you seem like a big hearted sweety, But also let's her know off the bat she won't be the #1 woman in your life and you could live another day without her.
I've had women pay for my meal and then buy me drinks because I had the sac to say that to them and not bat an eye.
Karma
"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."
Not only does this have a drastic effect on her on totally different levels and make you seem like a big hearted sweety, But also let's her know off the bat she won't be the #1 woman in your life and you could live another day without her.
I've had women pay for my meal and then buy me drinks because I had the sac to say that to them and not bat an eye.
Karma
MacDiddy
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quote:"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."
This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..
This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Criminal Mind
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haha I think that is scary... the girl may look at you weird... then again, it depends on the situation.
tmpgstx
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It will work for guys that aren't that attractive on girls with major insecurities because it is more believable from them.
If a really good-looking guy does it to a girl with major issues it totally backfires as she doesn't believe that HE could ever think that - and is only trying to get her in the sack to use and abuse her and toss her heart out the window type of thing. The guy then becomes a potential player in her mind because of his looks. She thinks he could get most any girl and she thinks "why does he want me"?
It's in part why some girls don't date what they consider hot guys because they feel they'll leave them for someone else eventually.
If a really good-looking guy does it to a girl with major issues it totally backfires as she doesn't believe that HE could ever think that - and is only trying to get her in the sack to use and abuse her and toss her heart out the window type of thing. The guy then becomes a potential player in her mind because of his looks. She thinks he could get most any girl and she thinks "why does he want me"?
It's in part why some girls don't date what they consider hot guys because they feel they'll leave them for someone else eventually.
Criminal Mind
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Not nice!! :woo:
KarmaSutra
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It's got my seal of approval and the patent is pending.
Seriously, You have to say it with conviction in order for it to have the plausable effect.
The C&F gimmick, I think is played out and far too relied upon. Think outside the box. Sisonpyh, David Deangelo, Mark Mathews; whatever the fvck he calls himself now, is NOT the be all to end all. I downloaded a number of his vids and wasn't that impressed with him. His presentation is one of a meticulous lecturer, not teacher or mentor. If you've watched any of them it's obvious he reads strictly verbatim from cue cards or teleprompter. He doesn't take the time and memorize his own shiz? That proves he doesn't even use his own material in real world experiences. If he did it would be natural and forthcoming instead of bland and scripted.
All he does is lecture type dvds and suck money from guys who have no respect or dignity for themselves. Guys looking for the shortcuts and the "perfect pick up line."
There is no substitute for getting off the chair and letting your keyboard cool down. GET OUT AND MEET WOMEN!
You Brothers who walk the walk know what I'm screamin'.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.