Emperiorjack
Don Juan
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He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Cause I dont think im the type that could pull this off.Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
haha I think that is scary... the girl may look at you weird... then again, it depends on the situation.Originally posted by Emperiorjack
He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
Not nice!! :woo:Originally posted by Bigworm
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yeah dude ur probably better off trying it on the blow up doll im sure u have in ur closet
Originally posted by MacDiddy
quote:"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."
This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.