Emperiorjack
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He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cause I dont think im the type that could pull this off.Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
haha I think that is scary... the girl may look at you weird... then again, it depends on the situation.Originally posted by Emperiorjack
He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
Not nice!! :woo:Originally posted by Bigworm
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yeah dude ur probably better off trying it on the blow up doll im sure u have in ur closet
Originally posted by MacDiddy
quote:"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."
This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.