Emperiorjack
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He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cause I dont think im the type that could pull this off.Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
haha I think that is scary... the girl may look at you weird... then again, it depends on the situation.Originally posted by Emperiorjack
He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
Not nice!! :woo:Originally posted by Bigworm
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yeah dude ur probably better off trying it on the blow up doll im sure u have in ur closet
Originally posted by MacDiddy
quote:"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."
This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.