"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My freind swears this works

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He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
 

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does your friend also swear that lemon juice is a good substitute for eye drops?
 

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If hes good looking it probably does work
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Say even the most AFC remark with confidence that oozes out of your pores, it will work.
 

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If it can work on your aunt, it can work on any woman.
 

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There's a difference between "saying" "you're beautiful, you're going to be the one entertaining me tonight" and "your beauty makes me want to do anything just to be able to hang out with you"

Two subconscious distinctions from simply saying "Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen."
 

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Let me rephrase this so you know what it sounds like to the woman. She hears, "Hello! I have a vagina."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All the guys saying it won’t work

You guys read too much of this DJ stuff.


YES THIS CAN WORK!

I use it sometimes (only when the girl really is beautiful) and it works.

It depends on how you say it and by whom it is said.

If you ooze out confidence and masculinity it will work.


BUT BE WARNED!!!

If you are a beginner you should not use these kind of lines otherwise you will come off looking like a AFC.

This kind of romantic stuff is not for all!!

It also depends on the girl it would have less chance of working on a 18 year old slut then on a 24 year old woman.
 

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if you're good looking, chances are it'll work.

face it
 

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I'm just conjecturing here ... what if you followed it up with a minor neg, such as "but you're too short for me" and say it with a smile ... hmm, worth trying
 

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What I've been saying for the longest time and have had very, VERY good results is:

"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."

Not only does this have a drastic effect on her on totally different levels and make you seem like a big hearted sweety, But also let's her know off the bat she won't be the #1 woman in your life and you could live another day without her.

I've had women pay for my meal and then buy me drinks because I had the sac to say that to them and not bat an eye.


Karma
 

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quote:"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."


This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Julian
why dont you go try it yourself you scumbag.
:crackup: :crackup:

yeah dude ur probably better off trying it on the blow up doll im sure u have in ur closet
 

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Originally posted by Emperiorjack
He goes up to a girl and says ,"Hi I just had to come up to talk to you. Your one of the most beatiful girls i have ever seen." Anyone else ever tried something similar to this?
haha I think that is scary... the girl may look at you weird... then again, it depends on the situation.
 

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It will work for guys that aren't that attractive on girls with major insecurities because it is more believable from them.

If a really good-looking guy does it to a girl with major issues it totally backfires as she doesn't believe that HE could ever think that - and is only trying to get her in the sack to use and abuse her and toss her heart out the window type of thing. The guy then becomes a potential player in her mind because of his looks. She thinks he could get most any girl and she thinks "why does he want me"?

It's in part why some girls don't date what they consider hot guys because they feel they'll leave them for someone else eventually.
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
quote:"Pardon me, I believe you are the most beautiful woman I've noticed today." (beat. and turn to walk away then immediately turn back) "On second thought, Make that the third most beautiful woman I've seen today. I took my -(Mom, Grandma, Favorite Aunt, Landlady or whomever) - out for a wonderful (Breakfast, lunch or dinner)."


This will work... Its got a bit of ****y & Funny in it..

It's got my seal of approval and the patent is pending. :D

Seriously, You have to say it with conviction in order for it to have the plausable effect.

The C&F gimmick, I think is played out and far too relied upon. Think outside the box. Sisonpyh, David Deangelo, Mark Mathews; whatever the fvck he calls himself now, is NOT the be all to end all. I downloaded a number of his vids and wasn't that impressed with him. His presentation is one of a meticulous lecturer, not teacher or mentor. If you've watched any of them it's obvious he reads strictly verbatim from cue cards or teleprompter. He doesn't take the time and memorize his own shiz? That proves he doesn't even use his own material in real world experiences. If he did it would be natural and forthcoming instead of bland and scripted.

All he does is lecture type dvds and suck money from guys who have no respect or dignity for themselves. Guys looking for the shortcuts and the "perfect pick up line."

There is no substitute for getting off the chair and letting your keyboard cool down. GET OUT AND MEET WOMEN!

You Brothers who walk the walk know what I'm screamin'.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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