You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yep, I do what works for me.Damocles said:yea, I haven't read most of the rest of it... I'm not talking about the volume of food, it's just a really restricted diet. Whatev, tho, eat what works for ya.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thanks, guys. I won't say exactly when I'll get up to 400 pounds but it is definitely within sight. As for correct form, I'm careful. I also follow stronglifts deadlifting technique. He posted a link to a video about proper deadlift form somewhere in the H&F section...I-tallionStallion said:Excellent job!! Break those limits my friend, its what this is all about!
BTW you should get a video of yourself doing it so we can make sure you got the right form.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I stretch between sets. TBH, I do fine without the warm up sets. My time in the gym is limited and taking the time to load the smaller weights then rack them and get the larger weights and then do the sets then rack those weights takes up precious time. For as long as I remember I just do my sets.Quagmire911 said:Why no warm up? Are you mad man?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What about stair climbing? I always perform those before I work out? BTW, after Quagmire posted his opinions on the subject I skimmed the thread about stretching pre workout which has the link to stronglift's website. I haven't had a chance to read it thouroughly so I won't comment on anything, avoiding injury is always a concern of mine. Fortunately I haven't been sidelined very often due to muscle strain or pull, the only time I really had to take time off was about a year ago after I pulled my trapezius doing some rows. I'm fortunate to have avoided injuries while working out, that's why I do stretch between sets.Quiksilver said:Just go for a 5 minute bike/elliptical and then do light/dynamic stretches on the main muscle groups, that should take care of warmup.
Remember this Quik:Quiksilver said:Just go for a 5 minute bike/elliptical and then do light/dynamic stretches on the main muscle groups, that should take care of warmup.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.