You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yep, I do what works for me.Damocles said:yea, I haven't read most of the rest of it... I'm not talking about the volume of food, it's just a really restricted diet. Whatev, tho, eat what works for ya.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thanks, guys. I won't say exactly when I'll get up to 400 pounds but it is definitely within sight. As for correct form, I'm careful. I also follow stronglifts deadlifting technique. He posted a link to a video about proper deadlift form somewhere in the H&F section...I-tallionStallion said:Excellent job!! Break those limits my friend, its what this is all about!
BTW you should get a video of yourself doing it so we can make sure you got the right form.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I stretch between sets. TBH, I do fine without the warm up sets. My time in the gym is limited and taking the time to load the smaller weights then rack them and get the larger weights and then do the sets then rack those weights takes up precious time. For as long as I remember I just do my sets.Quagmire911 said:Why no warm up? Are you mad man?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What about stair climbing? I always perform those before I work out? BTW, after Quagmire posted his opinions on the subject I skimmed the thread about stretching pre workout which has the link to stronglift's website. I haven't had a chance to read it thouroughly so I won't comment on anything, avoiding injury is always a concern of mine. Fortunately I haven't been sidelined very often due to muscle strain or pull, the only time I really had to take time off was about a year ago after I pulled my trapezius doing some rows. I'm fortunate to have avoided injuries while working out, that's why I do stretch between sets.Quiksilver said:Just go for a 5 minute bike/elliptical and then do light/dynamic stretches on the main muscle groups, that should take care of warmup.
Remember this Quik:Quiksilver said:Just go for a 5 minute bike/elliptical and then do light/dynamic stretches on the main muscle groups, that should take care of warmup.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.