my cousin there, the blonde, none of her previous boyfriends are half as good looking as i am
mostly dorky looking Russian dudes
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
My cousin has a gorgeous Armenian friend in Toronto
- Thread starter bigdave17
- Start date
mostly dorky looking Russian dudes
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
corrector
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Everyone has dreams and nightmares, and yes, sometimes you hear voices within your dreams or nightmare. You don't ever dream when you fall asleep?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
And the crowd goes wild
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lol
we'll see if it leads to anything
I'm very very attracted to both her and the one in New York but I can't wrap my mind around the logistics of starting something with either of them
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Keep it simple. If she has lust then sex.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Keep it down. Very few guys are able to use the over talking approach to break thru. The rest of us will kill interest.
Verify interest for a next meetup. Verify she thinks your attractive and when you see her escalate. Try to get intimate
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Once you got it setup that she thinks your cool and the next meetup your good.
I think you fly her to you so shes on your turf.
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You wish.Yeah and it's all 100% bullsh-t.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Does your senior center internet connection have a data cap? It doesn't look like it lol
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Opinions on what? There isn't really anything more to say at the present moment because nothing has happened.
Get her out on a date or fvck her or get her to send nudes or something, then the situation will have progressed enough to require fresh eyes and new hot takes
Get her out on a date or fvck her or get her to send nudes or something, then the situation will have progressed enough to require fresh eyes and new hot takes
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
why the fuq did you start this thread if you already knew what you were going to do?
jiminy christmas what a drama queen.
Definitely DO NOT call this woman. You'll make her uncomfortable just by texting her. That's how much your desperation reeks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.