my cousin there, the blonde, none of her previous boyfriends are half as good looking as i am
mostly dorky looking Russian dudes
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My cousin has a gorgeous Armenian friend in Toronto
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- Start date
mostly dorky looking Russian dudes
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
corrector
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Everyone has dreams and nightmares, and yes, sometimes you hear voices within your dreams or nightmare. You don't ever dream when you fall asleep?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
And the crowd goes wild
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lol
we'll see if it leads to anything
I'm very very attracted to both her and the one in New York but I can't wrap my mind around the logistics of starting something with either of them
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Keep it simple. If she has lust then sex.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Keep it down. Very few guys are able to use the over talking approach to break thru. The rest of us will kill interest.
Verify interest for a next meetup. Verify she thinks your attractive and when you see her escalate. Try to get intimate
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Once you got it setup that she thinks your cool and the next meetup your good.
I think you fly her to you so shes on your turf.
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You wish.Yeah and it's all 100% bullsh-t.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Does your senior center internet connection have a data cap? It doesn't look like it lol
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Opinions on what? There isn't really anything more to say at the present moment because nothing has happened.
Get her out on a date or fvck her or get her to send nudes or something, then the situation will have progressed enough to require fresh eyes and new hot takes
Get her out on a date or fvck her or get her to send nudes or something, then the situation will have progressed enough to require fresh eyes and new hot takes
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
why the fuq did you start this thread if you already knew what you were going to do?
jiminy christmas what a drama queen.
Definitely DO NOT call this woman. You'll make her uncomfortable just by texting her. That's how much your desperation reeks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.