cablecow15
Master Don Juan
This needs to happen soon , Ill feel alot more motivated to do this if i have a community effort going out and reporting it
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Masculinity
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Haha, this post is over two years old and bootcamp still doesn't start
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
I would love it if somebody would start another thread and have us all do the same thing , but under someone who will get online to organize it
JustWuzzle
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Yo master check your pm inbox. thanks
JustWuzzle
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P.s i never did the dj bootcamp but im ready to change
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I am totally going to try this and the other posts have been very motivating. In order to get myself in front of as many women as possible, I joined a couple of singles groups on MeetUp.Com. Activities and events are planned by the coordinators and all one has to do is show up and pay whatever the event costs (dinner, concert, etc.) and I figure that will help do the trick.
Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Tempted to try this on Saturday.
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
^^ I'll join you Johnny.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Excellent, I'm on a pub crawl for a mate's birthday on Saturday so finding 10 ladies to reject me should be a piece of p1ss.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.