cablecow15
Master Don Juan
This needs to happen soon , Ill feel alot more motivated to do this if i have a community effort going out and reporting it
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Masculinity
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Haha, this post is over two years old and bootcamp still doesn't start
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
I would love it if somebody would start another thread and have us all do the same thing , but under someone who will get online to organize it
JustWuzzle
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Yo master check your pm inbox. thanks
JustWuzzle
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P.s i never did the dj bootcamp but im ready to change
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I am totally going to try this and the other posts have been very motivating. In order to get myself in front of as many women as possible, I joined a couple of singles groups on MeetUp.Com. Activities and events are planned by the coordinators and all one has to do is show up and pay whatever the event costs (dinner, concert, etc.) and I figure that will help do the trick.
Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Tempted to try this on Saturday.
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
^^ I'll join you Johnny.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Excellent, I'm on a pub crawl for a mate's birthday on Saturday so finding 10 ladies to reject me should be a piece of p1ss.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.