"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)

cablecow15

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This needs to happen soon , Ill feel alot more motivated to do this if i have a community effort going out and reporting it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha, this post is over two years old and bootcamp still doesn't start
 

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I would love it if somebody would start another thread and have us all do the same thing , but under someone who will get online to organize it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am totally going to try this and the other posts have been very motivating. In order to get myself in front of as many women as possible, I joined a couple of singles groups on MeetUp.Com. Activities and events are planned by the coordinators and all one has to do is show up and pay whatever the event costs (dinner, concert, etc.) and I figure that will help do the trick.

Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
 

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Tempted to try this on Saturday.
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
 

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Excellent, I'm on a pub crawl for a mate's birthday on Saturday so finding 10 ladies to reject me should be a piece of p1ss.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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