cablecow15
Master Don Juan
This needs to happen soon , Ill feel alot more motivated to do this if i have a community effort going out and reporting it
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Masculinity
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Haha, this post is over two years old and bootcamp still doesn't start
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
I would love it if somebody would start another thread and have us all do the same thing , but under someone who will get online to organize it
JustWuzzle
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Yo master check your pm inbox. thanks
JustWuzzle
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P.s i never did the dj bootcamp but im ready to change
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I am totally going to try this and the other posts have been very motivating. In order to get myself in front of as many women as possible, I joined a couple of singles groups on MeetUp.Com. Activities and events are planned by the coordinators and all one has to do is show up and pay whatever the event costs (dinner, concert, etc.) and I figure that will help do the trick.
Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Tempted to try this on Saturday.
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
^^ I'll join you Johnny.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Excellent, I'm on a pub crawl for a mate's birthday on Saturday so finding 10 ladies to reject me should be a piece of p1ss.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.