"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cablecow15

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This needs to happen soon , Ill feel alot more motivated to do this if i have a community effort going out and reporting it
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Haha, this post is over two years old and bootcamp still doesn't start
 

cablecow15

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I would love it if somebody would start another thread and have us all do the same thing , but under someone who will get online to organize it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am totally going to try this and the other posts have been very motivating. In order to get myself in front of as many women as possible, I joined a couple of singles groups on MeetUp.Com. Activities and events are planned by the coordinators and all one has to do is show up and pay whatever the event costs (dinner, concert, etc.) and I figure that will help do the trick.

Ten in one day? I suppose between commuting on the train and random visits to the mall I can do that.... Actually, that sounds like a great idea! Put your mind to it, guys, we can get the numbers we need. Any other suggestions?
 

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Tempted to try this on Saturday.
Probably cold approached less than 10 women in my entire life, who else is up for the challenge & ready to share their tales of woe/success?
 

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Excellent, I'm on a pub crawl for a mate's birthday on Saturday so finding 10 ladies to reject me should be a piece of p1ss.
I can't even remember the last time I cold approached a woman, my approach anxiety is just paralyzing. I'm hoping this will push me over the threshold as there's no pressure.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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