"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving out to Cali soon

aBAzLLnA

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Wassup playas,

My dad's company is being bought out by some company in Cali near silicon valley. So, our family is probably going to move out to San Jose by the end of this summer, which is ok with me (better weather in Cali than Mass).

Was wondering, how many of y'all are from the Cali area? Or more specifically, San Jose?

~ivan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WaterTiger

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DUUUUUUDE! You're gonna love it out here!

I'm in San Francisco, just up the road. We got sunny days, cool nights and TONS of things to do and see. Bring your shades and suntan lotion.
 

Pimp-sicle

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California!!! The best state in the US of A!! I'm in So Cal though, the weather up north is better than Mass, but still doesn't compare to So Cal!!! :D



PIMP
 

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Haha, y'all are already making me get psyched. I have one more year of school in Mass then I'm headed west for the summer.

~ivan
 

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I live in Newark, about 20 mins north of San Jose. Actually, I moved here from San Jose about a year ago. Lived in SJ for about 5 years.

You're in luck. The weather is great overall and there is always something to do out here. And I love the variety of people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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California Love

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I live right next to SJ. You're going to notice a lot more minorities and some pretty bad driving, but the weather is great year round and there are plenty of hot chicks around.
 

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Dude, SOCAL is HB7-9 HEAVEN. It's warm over there so girls are always dressing like they're on the beach most of the time. There seems to be more blondes down there too!
 

Soma

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Blondes...bleeeeeh!

I much prefer dark features. Asians and Latinas are the good stuff, man!
 

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Originally posted by Soma
Blondes...bleeeeeh!

I much prefer dark features. Asians and Latinas are the good stuff, man!

Seconded. Though I think the Asian and Latin girls on the West Coast are hit and miss. Some are gorgeous, most I'd probably wipe my ass with. The blondes in Cali are seriously overrated too - half of them are bottle blondes. If you're talking blondes, take your ass to Northern Europe - coz that's where it's at! Mmmmm! ;)
 

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San Jose is in the south? I thought it was more Mid-Cali... But I really can't wait to check out the girls...

Are there a lotta pool halls down there? Cuz i'm gonna need to satisfy my fix.

~ivan
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey, i live in los gatos.

its less than10 minutes from san jose.

where are u gonna go to school?


and im not sure about pool halls.

i dont know of any
 

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Well, I'm going to finish my sr. year in massachusetts, but I will be in San Jose next summer.

~ivan
 

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Yeah, SJ is about in the middle although if you want to get technical the whole bay area is more like upper-middle therefore known as Nor Cal.

Oh one thing you should be aware of....don't EVER, and I mean, EVER, wear Reeboks around here. You do, and it's over, man. Serious shiet goes down when you wear Reeboks out here.
 

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LOL, what the fvck? :D Reeboks? Care to explain yourself?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aBAzLLnA

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What the hell?? LOL No reeboks? Even if they're bball shoes??

~ivan
 

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Sounds like you wear Reeboks. Dont...or you're definitely gonna get a beatdown out here by the NTR (Nike Thug Revolution).
 

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Nah, I don't wear Reeboks, but being prejudice against a shoe company?? What the hell? If it were Nike, I'd understand...

~ivan
 

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Ok, this farce has gone on long enough. How long do you plan on keeping this up, Jakethesnake? There is no such thing as the Nike Thug Revolution. Jake was just messin with ya. I live out here and know for a fact they don't exist. Good try though, had us going for a bit!

-Soma
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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