"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Moving out to Cali soon

NRM

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There are like two parts to San Jose. The east part with lots of crappy traffic and driving and where the Saturday night races go on and the west part with all the nice shopping malls and Stevens Creek area. If your dad is getting caught up in tech then you'll probably end up over on the west side. It's a calmer enviroment, but lots of people go to the west side for fun.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh an interesting tidbit...there are some nice lookin women at Santana Row which is on Stevens Creek Blvd. It's like the local Rodeo Drive/Beverly hills shiet. One cool thing about the place is that the have free outside movies each wednesday night during the summer. I just came back from there. Bunch of people go, bring blankets, snacks, and drinks, and watch the movie. It's tight. Snuggle up with your girl and enjoy. Tonight they showed Bringing Down the House. It was a good time.
 
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