"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cod3r

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Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr_knowit_all

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
Take care bro, and take it easy on all those hot white chicks you've been pulling :rolleyes:
 

rrrrr

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i wonder what happened to plastic surgeon.
 
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Cod3r - take care and have a fruitful life -- it's all in the journey kid - remember, it is just not the goals that you reach that will bring you happiness but also you must enjoy the long journey in attaining those goals!

Come on here when you want to be entertained by foolishness!
 

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r

Adios b1tch.
:crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rrrrr

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dude, this forum mostly sucks, but there are a few people who give advice. the amout of aggrivation i've saved from reading this board, makes up for the clowns on here.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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oh great we have a real DJ leaving the forum...wtf --
 

Spartibus

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Cod3r is no DJ... A DJ has class and doesn't preach down to everyone, calling the whole boards "losers".

And NO DonJuan would post pic of their girlfriend on the internet. And to top it off overrate her as an 8 when she's really a 5.
 

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Wow... I cant believe it. This guy from new york thats like a major pimp gets brushed away from sosuave from Thugos threads? I didnt realize he had such a low self esteem to let somethin like that affect him.... damn..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
 

Spartibus

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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now

You should worry about yourself not 20,000 other people.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
 

Spartibus

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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it

I don't know why everyones worried about Coder.

He called you all losers.
 

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24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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DonDan said:
24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...

just looked at the main page bottom--
 

Spartibus

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Just so you all know here's what your hero Coder thinks about you:

""I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women..."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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