"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cod3r

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Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr_knowit_all

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
Take care bro, and take it easy on all those hot white chicks you've been pulling :rolleyes:
 

rrrrr

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i wonder what happened to plastic surgeon.
 
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Cod3r - take care and have a fruitful life -- it's all in the journey kid - remember, it is just not the goals that you reach that will bring you happiness but also you must enjoy the long journey in attaining those goals!

Come on here when you want to be entertained by foolishness!
 

Thugo

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r

Adios b1tch.
:crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rrrrr

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dude, this forum mostly sucks, but there are a few people who give advice. the amout of aggrivation i've saved from reading this board, makes up for the clowns on here.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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oh great we have a real DJ leaving the forum...wtf --
 

Spartibus

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Cod3r is no DJ... A DJ has class and doesn't preach down to everyone, calling the whole boards "losers".

And NO DonJuan would post pic of their girlfriend on the internet. And to top it off overrate her as an 8 when she's really a 5.
 

DonDan

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Wow... I cant believe it. This guy from new york thats like a major pimp gets brushed away from sosuave from Thugos threads? I didnt realize he had such a low self esteem to let somethin like that affect him.... damn..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
 

Spartibus

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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now

You should worry about yourself not 20,000 other people.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
 

Spartibus

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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it

I don't know why everyones worried about Coder.

He called you all losers.
 

DonDan

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24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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DonDan said:
24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...

just looked at the main page bottom--
 

Spartibus

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Just so you all know here's what your hero Coder thinks about you:

""I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women..."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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