"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cod3r

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Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr_knowit_all

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
Take care bro, and take it easy on all those hot white chicks you've been pulling :rolleyes:
 

rrrrr

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i wonder what happened to plastic surgeon.
 
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Cod3r - take care and have a fruitful life -- it's all in the journey kid - remember, it is just not the goals that you reach that will bring you happiness but also you must enjoy the long journey in attaining those goals!

Come on here when you want to be entertained by foolishness!
 

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r

Adios b1tch.
:crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rrrrr

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dude, this forum mostly sucks, but there are a few people who give advice. the amout of aggrivation i've saved from reading this board, makes up for the clowns on here.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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oh great we have a real DJ leaving the forum...wtf --
 

Spartibus

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Cod3r is no DJ... A DJ has class and doesn't preach down to everyone, calling the whole boards "losers".

And NO DonJuan would post pic of their girlfriend on the internet. And to top it off overrate her as an 8 when she's really a 5.
 

DonDan

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Wow... I cant believe it. This guy from new york thats like a major pimp gets brushed away from sosuave from Thugos threads? I didnt realize he had such a low self esteem to let somethin like that affect him.... damn..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
 

Spartibus

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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now

You should worry about yourself not 20,000 other people.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
 

Spartibus

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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it

I don't know why everyones worried about Coder.

He called you all losers.
 

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24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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DonDan said:
24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...

just looked at the main page bottom--
 

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Just so you all know here's what your hero Coder thinks about you:

""I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women..."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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