"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
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Take care bro, and take it easy on all those hot white chicks you've been pulling :rolleyes:
 
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i wonder what happened to plastic surgeon.
 
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Cod3r - take care and have a fruitful life -- it's all in the journey kid - remember, it is just not the goals that you reach that will bring you happiness but also you must enjoy the long journey in attaining those goals!

Come on here when you want to be entertained by foolishness!
 
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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
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Adios b1tch.
:crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude, this forum mostly sucks, but there are a few people who give advice. the amout of aggrivation i've saved from reading this board, makes up for the clowns on here.
 
Cloudtopsun2100

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oh great we have a real DJ leaving the forum...wtf --
 
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Cod3r is no DJ... A DJ has class and doesn't preach down to everyone, calling the whole boards "losers".

And NO DonJuan would post pic of their girlfriend on the internet. And to top it off overrate her as an 8 when she's really a 5.
 
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Wow... I cant believe it. This guy from new york thats like a major pimp gets brushed away from sosuave from Thugos threads? I didnt realize he had such a low self esteem to let somethin like that affect him.... damn..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
 
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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
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You should worry about yourself not 20,000 other people.
 
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actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
 
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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
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I don't know why everyones worried about Coder.

He called you all losers.
 
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24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonDan said:
24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
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just looked at the main page bottom--
 
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Just so you all know here's what your hero Coder thinks about you:

""I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women..."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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