"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
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Take care bro, and take it easy on all those hot white chicks you've been pulling :rolleyes:
 
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i wonder what happened to plastic surgeon.
 
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Cod3r - take care and have a fruitful life -- it's all in the journey kid - remember, it is just not the goals that you reach that will bring you happiness but also you must enjoy the long journey in attaining those goals!

Come on here when you want to be entertained by foolishness!
 
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Cod3r said:
Fellas,

After realizing that this forum is basically a cesspool of guys who have no life and have zero intention on improving their lives, I've decided to move on and spend my free time in a healthier way...

Tks to the players that helped me (names need not be listed) and to those that offered up constructive criticism... later peeps



-Cod3r
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Adios b1tch.
:crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dude, this forum mostly sucks, but there are a few people who give advice. the amout of aggrivation i've saved from reading this board, makes up for the clowns on here.
 
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oh great we have a real DJ leaving the forum...wtf --
 
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Cod3r is no DJ... A DJ has class and doesn't preach down to everyone, calling the whole boards "losers".

And NO DonJuan would post pic of their girlfriend on the internet. And to top it off overrate her as an 8 when she's really a 5.
 
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Wow... I cant believe it. This guy from new york thats like a major pimp gets brushed away from sosuave from Thugos threads? I didnt realize he had such a low self esteem to let somethin like that affect him.... damn..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
 
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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
we have 24,631 members on this board- Im thinking at least 20,000 arent around now
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You should worry about yourself not 20,000 other people.
 
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actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
 
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Cloudtopsun2100 said:
actually it was just a guess- nothing pro coder or anti behind it
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I don't know why everyones worried about Coder.

He called you all losers.
 
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24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonDan said:
24,000?? seriously? We prolly only have about 23,300.... And the rest were prolly just names created over and over from getting banned...
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just looked at the main page bottom--
 
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Just so you all know here's what your hero Coder thinks about you:

""I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women..."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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