positivity_injection
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betterthandead said:
thats YOUR opinion, real men dont need to act like their opinion is the only acceptable opinion out there
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most People on this Site are VIRGINS? That is alarming!!
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thats YOUR opinion, real men dont need to act like their opinion is the only acceptable opinion out there
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
positivity_injection
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MikeYikes122 said:
when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
MikeYikes122
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I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.positivity_injection said:
But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count.
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MikeYikes122 said:I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.
But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count.
now see, how could you ever know the kind of life i lead based on post count?
you mean to tell me that because i posted 15 times a day (which takes a total of 45 minutes or so), that im doing NOTHING the other 23 hours and 15 minutes?
i dont need to "get out in the field", because i already have girls on my team, makes it easier to focus my energy on other things
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MikeYikes122 said:...But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count.
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
One chick, years ago. Messed around with a few afterwards. THEN I became AFC. Sometimes I wonder if I should be giving any advice at all since I'm entering "ok let's try this life thing again" territory. And then people think "oh you're not banging, obviously with no clue".
BUT--I have learned a hell of a lot about women in the last year and a half. I have seen DJ principles work for me, as far as driving women absolutely insane and not leaving me alone. Happening right now. I seem to be getting this shyt at a fundamental level now. Banging is imminent. But I guarantee you, I "get" (understand) women much more, and now they are seeming predictable to me. Finally. And there are dudes here that get laid a lot, and are AFC.
DJ has many different paths. All unique.
BUT--I have learned a hell of a lot about women in the last year and a half. I have seen DJ principles work for me, as far as driving women absolutely insane and not leaving me alone. Happening right now. I seem to be getting this shyt at a fundamental level now. Banging is imminent. But I guarantee you, I "get" (understand) women much more, and now they are seeming predictable to me. Finally. And there are dudes here that get laid a lot, and are AFC.
DJ has many different paths. All unique.
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The term AFC is overused and misused on here. If a guy is getting laid (and isn't paying for it or in some relationship where the girl's cheating behind his back) he might be average (like most of the guys on here) but he isn't frustrated or a chump.
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Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!Francisco d'Anconia said:Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Ahhh, but that would mean that he would have to be able to do it using just one account without getting banned. No worries...MikeYikes122 said: