"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Most People on this Site are VIRGINS? That is alarming!!

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I just looked at the "How Many Girls Have You Done" thread by Maxtro, and according to that i saw the following disturbing trends:

there are at least 2 times more virgins here than any other catergory

1/3 of the people that voted (which would be most of the active users on this site) are flat out virgins

66% of this site has been with 5 girls or less!!!!!!!! WOW

i also see 18 people voting for 100+ and im sure alot of those were joke votes


guys, who are you all getting advice from? how many guys are actually here talking out of there azzes with theory theory theory versus guys who **** women on a constant basis?

people who have been with less than 5 girls are automatically not allowed to give advice, i mean DAMN, i remember when i was 19 yrs old and i had only been with 5 girls.........i can compare what i knew then to what i know now (im 23), and i would never ever ever ever listen to the 19 yr old version of myself on how to get girls

who are the guys here besides me who have actually had sex with more than 50 girls? those are the only men who can know truly know what they are talking about
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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crazy thing is, 5% of the male population will die virgins. The average guy has 5 partners in his life. A vast majority of the population has 1-2 partners, and a slim portion of the population has 25+ but it all averages out to 5. Personally I have been with 9. I was also in a few LTR's that clogged up a large portion of my adult life, and I havent ever cheated on a girl, although I had quite a few chances.

It is crazy how many virgins are out there though. And how many will always be so.
 

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wtf

I am 20 and have had sex with 12 girls. I personally keep track of quality of quantity lol. Numbers don't really matter much but wow this is pretty ****eed up because I come to this site looking for advice......wow
 

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yo, consider some of us are high school students which are newbies. and besides, some people are christian. the successful people left the forum after they got success probably
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i have success and I come back and read (some stuff) because even a master can still learn new tricks. Personally I have learned more by watching the mystery method, and styles annihilation method videos. I would say any newb needs to start there, then come start making some posts.
 

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You think everyone on a "how to get laid" website is going to be swimming in p*ssy?
 

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Master Bates said:
You think everyone on a "how to get laid" website is going to be swimming in p*ssy?
:crackup: good point. The OP should think outside the box before he opens his mouth.
 

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Most of the information we get is from keyboard jockeys but we got no way to discern whos real and whos not.

plus alot of people have dating and relationship experience, but they just havent escalated to sex yet.
 

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Damn, another one of these threads!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Bates said:
You think everyone on a "how to get laid" website is going to be swimming in p*ssy?
Exactly what I was going to say. Most people come here because they are not getting laid. Heck when I came here I was a virgin.

positivity_injection,

You do have a good point that you have to be careful in whose advice you are taking. If somebody has had poor success with women the advice they are trying to give will most likely be poor. It is the duty of the person receiving the advice to determine if the advice is sound or not.

Also just because somebody has been with a ton of women does not make their advice good. They could not have a clue as to why they are having success and they might do a terrible job explaining it. Also a guy who has only been with 3 girls can give excellent advice. Maybe the only reason why he has only been with a small number of women is because he is content with that number. He might be happily married and has no interest in upping his body count.
 
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good points by all

my main point was, how likely do you all think that the blind are leading the blind? how often do YOU (if you are inexperienced) get advice from guys who dont have the experience to back up the advice given?

think about it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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positivity_injection said:
good points by all

my main point was, how likely do you all think that the blind are leading the blind? how often do YOU (if you are inexperienced) get advice from guys who dont have the experience to back up the advice given?

think about it
Choose peoples advice wisely!

Which is another reason we have the DJ Bible! Shame not many people really take the time to read it...
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Choose peoples advice wisely!

Which is another reason we have the DJ Bible! Shame not many people really take the time to read it...

honestly, if i came to this site 5 years ago when i was a virgin, i would only take advice from guys who already proved that they had been with dozens of women

i hate men who simply conduct theory and never give real life examples
 

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Yeah, I mean this shouldn't be shocking. It's a logical assumption that a lot of guys come here because they are having problems attracting women.

And BTW, that's a horrible thread to draw conclusions from, one way or the other... I am not here to raise #'s or talk about my numbers, so I didn't feel the need to participate (I did see the thread though).

I meet and date plenty of women. But I am still here for 3 reasons.

1) To have the woman that I do meet MORE attracted to me, so I will be more in control of the situation.
2) Understand what is going on in their heads (partly because of #1, and also partly to retain my sanity.
3) To attract a better quality of woman.

There have been some rather unintentional benefits of my participating here that had have a very positive impact on my life during my short stay. And NOTE: several of them have nothing to do with women or getting laid.
 

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positivity_injection said:
people who have been with less than 5 girls are automatically not allowed to give advice
I'd rather take advice from a guy who has slept with 3 supermodels than a guy who has slept with 15 girls that are 6/10.
 

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That poll might have been kind of misleading.

I have only had sex with six different girls, but I've messed around with probably 25 or so. Technically, I'd be in the third-lowest bracket on the poll because I haven't had sex with a large number of different chicks, but I've still been with my fair share. It's just a matter of penetration, I guess.

I still think I'm pretty experienced and qualified to give advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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