"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most People on this Site are VIRGINS? That is alarming!!

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Has anyone else put two-and-two together yet?

This guy is that skip_to_my_lou/AFC Savior stroke-off who creates a new handle every month and makes threads like these.

There's probably a MySpace dating thread in the near future.

when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
 

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positivity_injection said:
when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.

But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:
 
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I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.

But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:

now see, how could you ever know the kind of life i lead based on post count?

you mean to tell me that because i posted 15 times a day (which takes a total of 45 minutes or so), that im doing NOTHING the other 23 hours and 15 minutes?

i dont need to "get out in the field", because i already have girls on my team, makes it easier to focus my energy on other things
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
...But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!! :D
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One chick, years ago. Messed around with a few afterwards. THEN I became AFC. Sometimes I wonder if I should be giving any advice at all since I'm entering "ok let's try this life thing again" territory. And then people think "oh you're not banging, obviously with no clue".

BUT--I have learned a hell of a lot about women in the last year and a half. I have seen DJ principles work for me, as far as driving women absolutely insane and not leaving me alone. Happening right now. I seem to be getting this shyt at a fundamental level now. Banging is imminent. But I guarantee you, I "get" (understand) women much more, and now they are seeming predictable to me. Finally. And there are dudes here that get laid a lot, and are AFC.

DJ has many different paths. All unique.
 

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The term AFC is overused and misused on here. If a guy is getting laid (and isn't paying for it or in some relationship where the girl's cheating behind his back) he might be average (like most of the guys on here) but he isn't frustrated or a chump.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!! :D
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Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!
Ahhh, but that would mean that he would have to be able to do it using just one account without getting banned. No worries... :D
 
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