"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Most People on this Site are VIRGINS? That is alarming!!

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Has anyone else put two-and-two together yet?

This guy is that skip_to_my_lou/AFC Savior stroke-off who creates a new handle every month and makes threads like these.

There's probably a MySpace dating thread in the near future.

when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
 

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positivity_injection said:
when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.

But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:
 
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I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.

But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:

now see, how could you ever know the kind of life i lead based on post count?

you mean to tell me that because i posted 15 times a day (which takes a total of 45 minutes or so), that im doing NOTHING the other 23 hours and 15 minutes?

i dont need to "get out in the field", because i already have girls on my team, makes it easier to focus my energy on other things
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
...But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!! :D
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One chick, years ago. Messed around with a few afterwards. THEN I became AFC. Sometimes I wonder if I should be giving any advice at all since I'm entering "ok let's try this life thing again" territory. And then people think "oh you're not banging, obviously with no clue".

BUT--I have learned a hell of a lot about women in the last year and a half. I have seen DJ principles work for me, as far as driving women absolutely insane and not leaving me alone. Happening right now. I seem to be getting this shyt at a fundamental level now. Banging is imminent. But I guarantee you, I "get" (understand) women much more, and now they are seeming predictable to me. Finally. And there are dudes here that get laid a lot, and are AFC.

DJ has many different paths. All unique.
 

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The term AFC is overused and misused on here. If a guy is getting laid (and isn't paying for it or in some relationship where the girl's cheating behind his back) he might be average (like most of the guys on here) but he isn't frustrated or a chump.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!! :D
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Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!
Ahhh, but that would mean that he would have to be able to do it using just one account without getting banned. No worries... :D
 
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