"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Most People on this Site are VIRGINS? That is alarming!!

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Has anyone else put two-and-two together yet?

This guy is that skip_to_my_lou/AFC Savior stroke-off who creates a new handle every month and makes threads like these.

There's probably a MySpace dating thread in the near future.

when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
 

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positivity_injection said:
when one lacks pvssy in his life, one will feel cool and happy about making revelations on a discussion board
I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.

But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:
 
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MikeYikes122 said:
I'm not one the who has posted 58 times in a few weeks. I think you're the one who needs to get out in the field.

But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:

now see, how could you ever know the kind of life i lead based on post count?

you mean to tell me that because i posted 15 times a day (which takes a total of 45 minutes or so), that im doing NOTHING the other 23 hours and 15 minutes?

i dont need to "get out in the field", because i already have girls on my team, makes it easier to focus my energy on other things
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
...But keep it up, at this rate you're going to blow away Francisco's high post count. :up:
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!! :D
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One chick, years ago. Messed around with a few afterwards. THEN I became AFC. Sometimes I wonder if I should be giving any advice at all since I'm entering "ok let's try this life thing again" territory. And then people think "oh you're not banging, obviously with no clue".

BUT--I have learned a hell of a lot about women in the last year and a half. I have seen DJ principles work for me, as far as driving women absolutely insane and not leaving me alone. Happening right now. I seem to be getting this shyt at a fundamental level now. Banging is imminent. But I guarantee you, I "get" (understand) women much more, and now they are seeming predictable to me. Finally. And there are dudes here that get laid a lot, and are AFC.

DJ has many different paths. All unique.
 

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The term AFC is overused and misused on here. If a guy is getting laid (and isn't paying for it or in some relationship where the girl's cheating behind his back) he might be average (like most of the guys on here) but he isn't frustrated or a chump.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hmmmm.... I don't know if I should be insulted or what. Eh, who cares, just another notch in my belt as soon as I hit submit!! :D
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Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Not a dig on you. I was just letting you know, this kid is gunning for you!
Ahhh, but that would mean that he would have to be able to do it using just one account without getting banned. No worries... :D
 
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