"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Most annoying sayings/verbal cliches?

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At the end of the day, this thread is a perfect storm of cliche's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"same ____time, same____channel"


I hate when people use the word, "synergy" also.


I f*cking hate that word! Some yuppie bullsh!t word to replace an already adequate word: cooperation.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
This has got to be the worst word in our language. I absolutely loathe anyone who prefaces every other word with: "like".

I fvcking hate it with a passion.
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Yeah, my teacher in high school forbid us from using that word. He actually would take a letter grade off of papers if he saw it in there.

He would fail people for using it as well. I remember my midterm was a 69 for that class as well.

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BFFs for life!!!

This annoys me a great deal. The people who profess this BS are precisely the ones that go around spewing lies about their supposed "BF".

I hate labels like that. You are just setting yourself up for a fall!
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I NEVER use that label seriously. I only use that word with people that dislikes me like my girlfriends roommate. She wanted to date me, lost out, and now wishes that I wouldn't come over. Sucks to be her *jabs Ken785 in the eye with stick*

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"You are bitter!", "You're a uh.. you're a misogynist!". Those irk me every time I hear them said to anyone.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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comic_relief said:
He would fail people for using it as well. I remember my midterm was a 69 for that class as well.


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You mean your teacher in HS made you 69 him for your mid-term test :D ?
 
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I cringe at the phrase, "He/She is good people". Unless they're schizo, they are a good person.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When you come to work on monday and you aren't feeling really well and someone says: " Sounds like someone has a case of the monday's"

I believe you should get your ass kicked for saying something like that.
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Fukken A man. :up:

Remember kids. . .

This thread is about cliches and what not. If you'll recall, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result, so don't expect the vast majority of these expressions to go anywhere anytime soon. We first have to take care of this, that, and the other thing with these cliches before we can move on to over-used euphemisms, colloquialisms, double entendres, and asinine acronyms that somehow survived this cliche day of infamy.

There's no 'I' in 'team', so let's not put the cart before the horse and try to get too far outside the box. For all intents and purposes, I think we can git 'er done quickly if we just do it.
 
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"(Just) my 2 cents"
"Keep It Simple Stupid"

I'm feeling irritated now that i wrote them down. :nervous:
 
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I can't believe I forgot this one:

Be yourself.
 
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How'bout "Great post"?
There are few threads that the "Great post" chorus misses. :)

Addon: "Do it NOW!" / "NOW is the moment!" / "<bla> NOW <bla>" -> greatly overused
 
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"Come on, you can do it!"

"You're Almost there!"

"No offence, but..."

"Is it just me or is it x?"

"0o0o0o!! You got burned/rinsed/gutted!"

"You wanna fight?!" or "FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!"

"00O00O X is getting pissed off now!"

"At least you tried....".

"Its ok, you did your best".

I FUKIN' HATE THOSE!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everybody says this one:

"I'm different from all the other girls/guys. I do [add activity]..."

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Phone rings.

Me: Hello?

some douche: "who is this?" or " who you?"

....motha****er YOU called ME!!!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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