"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Timbaland Apologize is the latest crap

The true Sosuave player song is 3-6Mafia Late Night Tip
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thank you for loving me - Bon Jovi
 

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"I Miss You" by Incubus:

"To see you when I wake up
Is a gift I didn't think could be real
To know that you feel the same as I do
Is a three-fold utopian dream

You do something to me that I can't explain
So would I be out of line if I said
I miss you?

I see your picture
I smell your skin on the empty pillow next to mine
You have only been gone ten days
But already I'm wasting away
I know I'll see you again
Whether far or soon
But I need you to know that I care
And I miss you"

Oh yeah, Linkin Park sucks balls. Talk about a band wagon front running teeny bopper band that tries to disguise themselves as real and having street cred.
 

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You know, I'm immensely proud I've never heard of 99% of the bands/singers you've all mentioned.

Got a bit of Rainbow on now - Man On The Silver Mountain.

"I'm a wheel, a wheel, I roll I can feel, and you can't stop me turning,
I'm the sun, the sun, I move I can run, and you can't stop me burning.."

:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex said:
You know, I'm immensely proud I've never heard of 99% of the bands/singers you've all mentioned.

Got a bit of Rainbow on now - Man On The Silver Mountain.

"I'm a wheel, a wheel, I roll I can feel, and you can't stop me turning,
I'm the sun, the sun, I move I can run, and you can't stop me burning.."

:D
Well Warboss you've narrowed your age to somewhere in the mid to late thirties. Any of my friends who listen to Rainbow are within that age bracket.

Another piece of the puzzle falls into place.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
You know, I'm immensely proud I've never heard of 99% of the bands/singers you've all mentioned.

Got a bit of Rainbow on now - Man On The Silver Mountain.

"I'm a wheel, a wheel, I roll I can feel, and you can't stop me turning,
I'm the sun, the sun, I move I can run, and you can't stop me burning.."

:D
Maybe if I listen to the same music as Alex I will grow faster...

**downloads the Rainbow discography**
 

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yeah well nsync has some DJ songs like Bye Bye Bye and so does the Backstreet Boys. Not saying they dont have afc songs who knows maybe they're sending mixed signals..
DonJuan11 said:
Who the heck is James Blunt?
How is Sweet Child of Mine AFC? That song rocks hard at the end.

AFC - This I Promise You - NSync

DJ Song - B-ches Ain't S--t by Dr. Dre
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha the pharcyde - passin me by

but it's a west coast classic
 

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a better focus would be to find something on the other end of the spectrum- to continue to list every chump song is counter productive
 

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this thread cracks me up lmao :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AFC: Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

DJ: The Four Seasons - Walk Like A Man
 

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crawfordicon said:
What are the most AFC songs ever written? I heard Maroon Five's She Will Be Loved on the radio today, and I couldn't believe just how AFC this song is. I was never a huge fan of the song when it was really big, but, certainly now, it just reeks of AFC-ness.
That song is about a guy who is on his way to a severe ass beating by a pissed off boyfriend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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