"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most AFC Songs
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Canadian Catnip said:
That's a GUY singing!?
I thought it was some old, fat, ugly dyke!When I heard this song in a drugstore, I wanted to trash the place!
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Bible_Belt said:
Yeah, but he's got GREAT hair!
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So much of the stuff from the emo movement just sums up AFC style music.
Gangster Of Love
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Not even close, professor. Richard Marx wrote that one about his wife, who he's been married to for 20 years now. That song is just guilty of having been overplayed it was painful, back when most of you were in diapers.Bible_Belt said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gangster Of Love
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Mike Tyson killed Mary.
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That song, "Can't Live (if living is without you)," --the one Mariah Carey covered--but the original, is a major wussbaggishness!
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thursday said:
You've got a point.
I can say that I've got Wasp's first album playing a lot lately. I find that very DJ encouraging.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"The Reason" by Hoobustank:
I'm not a perfect person
There's many things I wish I didn't do
But I continue learning
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I'm sorry that I hurt you
It's something I must live with everyday
And all the pain I put you through
I wish that I could take it all away
And be the one who catches all your tears
That's why I need you to hear
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you (x4)
I'm not a perfect person
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I've found a reason to show
A side of me you didn't know
A reason for all that I do
And the reason is you
I'm not a perfect person
There's many things I wish I didn't do
But I continue learning
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I'm sorry that I hurt you
It's something I must live with everyday
And all the pain I put you through
I wish that I could take it all away
And be the one who catches all your tears
That's why I need you to hear
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you (x4)
I'm not a perfect person
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know
I've found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
and the reason is you
I've found a reason to show
A side of me you didn't know
A reason for all that I do
And the reason is you
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amen. it's just like usa covering britney spears & who's the baby daddy of anna nichole smith 24/7 instead of things like the war or anything else.thursday said:
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AFC
Honey Come Home- Glen Campbell
I Can't Stop Loving You- Ray Charles
2 out of 3- Meatloaf
Honey Come Home- Glen Campbell
I Can't Stop Loving You- Ray Charles
2 out of 3- Meatloaf
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oh gosh I hate James Blunt. I wish he really would kill himself. The reason that song is so wbAFC is because he gets obsessed with a girl he hasn't even met, based solely on her looks!
How about that new hit by Elliot Yamin? ("Wait for You")
How about that new hit by Elliot Yamin? ("Wait for You")
drummer
Senior Don Juan
Better Than Me by Hinder. Case Closed with the opening line.. "I think you can do much better than me"
Billy Talent - Surrender (and it gets played heavy on Canadian radio)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=RVeCoxeAq84
- It's like a rock song about understanding oneself being an AFC, but not understanding or wanting to fix it.
And this song...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=eBGIQ7ZuuiU
http://youtube.com/watch?v=RVeCoxeAq84
- It's like a rock song about understanding oneself being an AFC, but not understanding or wanting to fix it.
And this song...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=eBGIQ7ZuuiU
paintballz
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james blunt is an poster boy for AFC behavior, YUK!!!!!
i wish there was concrete down there instead of water
what a maggot
i wish there was concrete down there instead of water
what a maggot
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.