"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is a more successful way of asking girls out...

YOU: I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood...

This way she will not be able to stop thinking about when you will ask her, and she will be anticipating it SOOOOO much that 9/10 times she will say yes...

Also ask at a time she is least expecting it... (nono NOT when she is upset or if it is a bad time e.g. if someone in her family just died nono... just unexpected that's all...)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To the b!tch that throws things at you: "I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood..."
Her: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.
 
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Patrick124 said:
the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.
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Oh I thought that had kind of died to, thanks for the heads up I will check that out :)
 
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