"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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More success with asking somebody out...

Jack-Torrance

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This is a more successful way of asking girls out...

YOU: I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood...

This way she will not be able to stop thinking about when you will ask her, and she will be anticipating it SOOOOO much that 9/10 times she will say yes...

Also ask at a time she is least expecting it... (nono NOT when she is upset or if it is a bad time e.g. if someone in her family just died nono... just unexpected that's all...)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To the b!tch that throws things at you: "I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood..."
Her: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Patrick124

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the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.
 

Jack-Torrance

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Patrick124 said:
the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.

Oh I thought that had kind of died to, thanks for the heads up I will check that out :)
 
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