"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

More success with asking somebody out...

J

Jack-Torrance

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2007
Messages
123
Reaction score
1
This is a more successful way of asking girls out...

YOU: I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood...

This way she will not be able to stop thinking about when you will ask her, and she will be anticipating it SOOOOO much that 9/10 times she will say yes...

Also ask at a time she is least expecting it... (nono NOT when she is upset or if it is a bad time e.g. if someone in her family just died nono... just unexpected that's all...)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

D

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
To the b!tch that throws things at you: "I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood..."
Her: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

P

Patrick124

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 9, 2004
Messages
669
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Virginia
the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.
 
J

Jack-Torrance

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2007
Messages
123
Reaction score
1
Patrick124 said:
the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.
Click to expand...

Oh I thought that had kind of died to, thanks for the heads up I will check that out :)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top