"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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More success with asking somebody out...

Jack-Torrance

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This is a more successful way of asking girls out...

YOU: I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood...

This way she will not be able to stop thinking about when you will ask her, and she will be anticipating it SOOOOO much that 9/10 times she will say yes...

Also ask at a time she is least expecting it... (nono NOT when she is upset or if it is a bad time e.g. if someone in her family just died nono... just unexpected that's all...)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To the b!tch that throws things at you: "I'm going to ask you out... just not right now, I'm not in the mood..."
Her: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Patrick124

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the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.
 

Jack-Torrance

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Patrick124 said:
the player files is basically over. did u ever go on to the newer forums?u needed ot be approved by Devil n all this stuff, i lost track of em cause they made a new site ever month for like 3 months straight.
but "The Player" started to update becomeaplayer.com again.

anyways, thats an old tip. way old. but good job.

Oh I thought that had kind of died to, thanks for the heads up I will check that out :)
 
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