I'm new on here and I have a couple of questions? 1. what does afc stand for and all the other abrevations? 2. I have this friend that I'm stuck in the "friend zone" with. I have my own technique to get out of it. but I'm wondering what I should do but one thing is certain I'm tired of being the emotional door mat. I asked a couple of my peps my age for some advice but they all told me to do the same thing which is tell her. I don't think I should do that because females that I have met don't understand logic. she is no exception. so Im wondering what would some older cats that know more about the game would advise me to do. I've known her for 6 years and at first it was cool but I think I missed the opportunity to make a move. I think she views me as a brother instead of a man. It gets nerve wrecking because she sends mixed signals. she calls one time and we are talking about sexaul things. then she calls another time and the topic is about this guy she wants to talk to. so I kinda wondering where her head is because I don't talk about either of those subjects with my real sister. is she playing a game or what. I'm just about ready to just stop talking to her completely. but all the advise that is given will be greatly appreciated.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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- Thread starter Cincere
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Do this-
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
females that I have met don't understand logic.
You are onto something there.
You are onto something there.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
LOL! The truth.. they tell you left and mean right. They tell you white and choose black. They tell you yes, which means no.Bible_Belt said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BeautifulHawaii
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"Cats?"
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Basically, you probably shouldn't suddenly "tell her how you feel" out of the blue. Your friends are not so experienced. Here's what you need to know about attracting female friends.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
Forget about this girl, and go for other girls. The first thing you need to learn here is to not EVER go for 'that one' girl. You have what is known here as 'oneitis.' Bad. Stay away from this girl, and game other women, and lots of them. This girl will NOT help you. They almost never do. She'll cokblock you to keep your attention all to herself.