I'm new on here and I have a couple of questions? 1. what does afc stand for and all the other abrevations? 2. I have this friend that I'm stuck in the "friend zone" with. I have my own technique to get out of it. but I'm wondering what I should do but one thing is certain I'm tired of being the emotional door mat. I asked a couple of my peps my age for some advice but they all told me to do the same thing which is tell her. I don't think I should do that because females that I have met don't understand logic. she is no exception. so Im wondering what would some older cats that know more about the game would advise me to do. I've known her for 6 years and at first it was cool but I think I missed the opportunity to make a move. I think she views me as a brother instead of a man. It gets nerve wrecking because she sends mixed signals. she calls one time and we are talking about sexaul things. then she calls another time and the topic is about this guy she wants to talk to. so I kinda wondering where her head is because I don't talk about either of those subjects with my real sister. is she playing a game or what. I'm just about ready to just stop talking to her completely. but all the advise that is given will be greatly appreciated.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Do this-
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
females that I have met don't understand logic.
You are onto something there.
You are onto something there.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
LOL! The truth.. they tell you left and mean right. They tell you white and choose black. They tell you yes, which means no.Bible_Belt said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BeautifulHawaii
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"Cats?"
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Basically, you probably shouldn't suddenly "tell her how you feel" out of the blue. Your friends are not so experienced. Here's what you need to know about attracting female friends.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
Forget about this girl, and go for other girls. The first thing you need to learn here is to not EVER go for 'that one' girl. You have what is known here as 'oneitis.' Bad. Stay away from this girl, and game other women, and lots of them. This girl will NOT help you. They almost never do. She'll cokblock you to keep your attention all to herself.