I'm new on here and I have a couple of questions? 1. what does afc stand for and all the other abrevations? 2. I have this friend that I'm stuck in the "friend zone" with. I have my own technique to get out of it. but I'm wondering what I should do but one thing is certain I'm tired of being the emotional door mat. I asked a couple of my peps my age for some advice but they all told me to do the same thing which is tell her. I don't think I should do that because females that I have met don't understand logic. she is no exception. so Im wondering what would some older cats that know more about the game would advise me to do. I've known her for 6 years and at first it was cool but I think I missed the opportunity to make a move. I think she views me as a brother instead of a man. It gets nerve wrecking because she sends mixed signals. she calls one time and we are talking about sexaul things. then she calls another time and the topic is about this guy she wants to talk to. so I kinda wondering where her head is because I don't talk about either of those subjects with my real sister. is she playing a game or what. I'm just about ready to just stop talking to her completely. but all the advise that is given will be greatly appreciated.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
more advanced cat's help
- Thread starter Cincere
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Do this-
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
females that I have met don't understand logic.
You are onto something there.
You are onto something there.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
LOL! The truth.. they tell you left and mean right. They tell you white and choose black. They tell you yes, which means no.Bible_Belt said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Cats?"
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Basically, you probably shouldn't suddenly "tell her how you feel" out of the blue. Your friends are not so experienced. Here's what you need to know about attracting female friends.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
Forget about this girl, and go for other girls. The first thing you need to learn here is to not EVER go for 'that one' girl. You have what is known here as 'oneitis.' Bad. Stay away from this girl, and game other women, and lots of them. This girl will NOT help you. They almost never do. She'll cokblock you to keep your attention all to herself.