I'm new on here and I have a couple of questions? 1. what does afc stand for and all the other abrevations? 2. I have this friend that I'm stuck in the "friend zone" with. I have my own technique to get out of it. but I'm wondering what I should do but one thing is certain I'm tired of being the emotional door mat. I asked a couple of my peps my age for some advice but they all told me to do the same thing which is tell her. I don't think I should do that because females that I have met don't understand logic. she is no exception. so Im wondering what would some older cats that know more about the game would advise me to do. I've known her for 6 years and at first it was cool but I think I missed the opportunity to make a move. I think she views me as a brother instead of a man. It gets nerve wrecking because she sends mixed signals. she calls one time and we are talking about sexaul things. then she calls another time and the topic is about this guy she wants to talk to. so I kinda wondering where her head is because I don't talk about either of those subjects with my real sister. is she playing a game or what. I'm just about ready to just stop talking to her completely. but all the advise that is given will be greatly appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
more advanced cat's help
- Thread starter Cincere
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Do this-
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
1) Stop thinkiing about her and stop giving her your time.
2) Start seeing a couple of other women and date 'em like a 'man' should.
3) Practise some bold skills with the new chics, take some risks.
4) Assume that the gravevine will carry the news of your new found popularity to your original girl.
5) When she calls you to "talk" ,ask her advice as a 'friend', about your new girls .
6) Post a FR in two months time .
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
females that I have met don't understand logic.
You are onto something there.
You are onto something there.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
LOL! The truth.. they tell you left and mean right. They tell you white and choose black. They tell you yes, which means no.Bible_Belt said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BeautifulHawaii
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"Cats?"
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Is 70's blackploitation lingo really making a comeback in the year 2009? :nervous:
I've been seeing this sh!t everywhere lately. :crazy:
Basically, you probably shouldn't suddenly "tell her how you feel" out of the blue. Your friends are not so experienced. Here's what you need to know about attracting female friends.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
Forget about this girl, and go for other girls. The first thing you need to learn here is to not EVER go for 'that one' girl. You have what is known here as 'oneitis.' Bad. Stay away from this girl, and game other women, and lots of them. This girl will NOT help you. They almost never do. She'll cokblock you to keep your attention all to herself.