me likey.Warboss Alex said:Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
me likey.Warboss Alex said:Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
My point is Diesels program is far from optimal, very few people here need to be doing a 4 Day a week routine, and i also think that not many newbies would be able to create a realistic workout with the set numbers he has for each exercise.Quiksilver said:Somebody has to go through Diesel's guide and paraphrase it, keeping only the essentials of his program/methods. It shouldn't be deleted if people are getting results from it, there has to be an alternative though.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No don't condense it. If you're too lazy to read 2-3 pages of text how the fvck are you going to work out properly on a consistent basis?Warboss Alex said:Guys, how about I do a summary post like Diesel did. My guide has a lot of blurb which is the way I explain things but Diesel's guides do have their simplicity. I could write a summary post without much 'fluff' that covers what the Guide would have covered and then build up the Idiot's Guide as a more comprehensive explanation.
Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
mrRuckus said:No don't condense it. If you're too lazy to read 2-3 pages of text how the fvck are you going to work out properly on a consistent basis?
Let people wallow in mediocrity if they're not willing to read. All the information is already in your previous thread.
I hate hand feeding people..
yeah well, if I only said "Eat 2g of protein per lb" all the bb.com boys and wannabe biologists are going to tell me it's a waste, the body can't handle that much, it's gonna kill you, bad for your kidneys etc. And then I'll tell them to ditch their beloved cable crossovers and chest flys because they don't do much except give you a temporary pump and they'll break out in a cold sweat.THE_ADDMAN said:Falling asleep trying to understand all the information in "2-3 pages of text" is not going to help motivate you to work out.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
A guy after my own heart...:rockon:mrRuckus said:I hate hand feeding people..
Yeah, tell me the science behind all of this so I can understand why I should it. Then I may be able to make adjustments if necessary without having the need to write a frantic "what do I do now!!!???" post.Warboss Alex said:...The reason that I write so much is so that people understand WHY I'm recommending x and y and not just spouting numbers and formulas off my head. Any idiot can write a workout routine but ask him to back it with WHY it works and they won't be able to. And if the trainee understands why a certain diet/routine works, they'll have so much more faith in it and will be happy doing it, instead of having workout ADD and switch things up every month to 'catch the body offguard'..
Put someone with endomorphic tendencies on 3g of carbs a day, even clean carbs like oats, and I'll show you mr fatboy in less than three months. However if said endomorph had some idea of complex vs simple carbs, insulin, carb timings etc they'd use some deductive reasoning, restrict carbs to around workout times, not overfeed on them and do so much more so that their diet is tailored to themselves without getting a generic number and applying it without a second thought.Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.