me likey.Warboss Alex said:Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
me likey.Warboss Alex said:Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My point is Diesels program is far from optimal, very few people here need to be doing a 4 Day a week routine, and i also think that not many newbies would be able to create a realistic workout with the set numbers he has for each exercise.Quiksilver said:Somebody has to go through Diesel's guide and paraphrase it, keeping only the essentials of his program/methods. It shouldn't be deleted if people are getting results from it, there has to be an alternative though.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No don't condense it. If you're too lazy to read 2-3 pages of text how the fvck are you going to work out properly on a consistent basis?Warboss Alex said:Guys, how about I do a summary post like Diesel did. My guide has a lot of blurb which is the way I explain things but Diesel's guides do have their simplicity. I could write a summary post without much 'fluff' that covers what the Guide would have covered and then build up the Idiot's Guide as a more comprehensive explanation.
Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
mrRuckus said:No don't condense it. If you're too lazy to read 2-3 pages of text how the fvck are you going to work out properly on a consistent basis?
Let people wallow in mediocrity if they're not willing to read. All the information is already in your previous thread.
I hate hand feeding people..
yeah well, if I only said "Eat 2g of protein per lb" all the bb.com boys and wannabe biologists are going to tell me it's a waste, the body can't handle that much, it's gonna kill you, bad for your kidneys etc. And then I'll tell them to ditch their beloved cable crossovers and chest flys because they don't do much except give you a temporary pump and they'll break out in a cold sweat.THE_ADDMAN said:Falling asleep trying to understand all the information in "2-3 pages of text" is not going to help motivate you to work out.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A guy after my own heart...:rockon:mrRuckus said:I hate hand feeding people..
Yeah, tell me the science behind all of this so I can understand why I should it. Then I may be able to make adjustments if necessary without having the need to write a frantic "what do I do now!!!???" post.Warboss Alex said:...The reason that I write so much is so that people understand WHY I'm recommending x and y and not just spouting numbers and formulas off my head. Any idiot can write a workout routine but ask him to back it with WHY it works and they won't be able to. And if the trainee understands why a certain diet/routine works, they'll have so much more faith in it and will be happy doing it, instead of having workout ADD and switch things up every month to 'catch the body offguard'..
Put someone with endomorphic tendencies on 3g of carbs a day, even clean carbs like oats, and I'll show you mr fatboy in less than three months. However if said endomorph had some idea of complex vs simple carbs, insulin, carb timings etc they'd use some deductive reasoning, restrict carbs to around workout times, not overfeed on them and do so much more so that their diet is tailored to themselves without getting a generic number and applying it without a second thought.Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.