me likey.Warboss Alex said:Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
me likey.Warboss Alex said:Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My point is Diesels program is far from optimal, very few people here need to be doing a 4 Day a week routine, and i also think that not many newbies would be able to create a realistic workout with the set numbers he has for each exercise.Quiksilver said:Somebody has to go through Diesel's guide and paraphrase it, keeping only the essentials of his program/methods. It shouldn't be deleted if people are getting results from it, there has to be an alternative though.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No don't condense it. If you're too lazy to read 2-3 pages of text how the fvck are you going to work out properly on a consistent basis?Warboss Alex said:Guys, how about I do a summary post like Diesel did. My guide has a lot of blurb which is the way I explain things but Diesel's guides do have their simplicity. I could write a summary post without much 'fluff' that covers what the Guide would have covered and then build up the Idiot's Guide as a more comprehensive explanation.
Sort of like a quick reference sheet as opposed to the whole game manual.
mrRuckus said:No don't condense it. If you're too lazy to read 2-3 pages of text how the fvck are you going to work out properly on a consistent basis?
Let people wallow in mediocrity if they're not willing to read. All the information is already in your previous thread.
I hate hand feeding people..
yeah well, if I only said "Eat 2g of protein per lb" all the bb.com boys and wannabe biologists are going to tell me it's a waste, the body can't handle that much, it's gonna kill you, bad for your kidneys etc. And then I'll tell them to ditch their beloved cable crossovers and chest flys because they don't do much except give you a temporary pump and they'll break out in a cold sweat.THE_ADDMAN said:Falling asleep trying to understand all the information in "2-3 pages of text" is not going to help motivate you to work out.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
A guy after my own heart...:rockon:mrRuckus said:I hate hand feeding people..
Yeah, tell me the science behind all of this so I can understand why I should it. Then I may be able to make adjustments if necessary without having the need to write a frantic "what do I do now!!!???" post.Warboss Alex said:...The reason that I write so much is so that people understand WHY I'm recommending x and y and not just spouting numbers and formulas off my head. Any idiot can write a workout routine but ask him to back it with WHY it works and they won't be able to. And if the trainee understands why a certain diet/routine works, they'll have so much more faith in it and will be happy doing it, instead of having workout ADD and switch things up every month to 'catch the body offguard'..
Put someone with endomorphic tendencies on 3g of carbs a day, even clean carbs like oats, and I'll show you mr fatboy in less than three months. However if said endomorph had some idea of complex vs simple carbs, insulin, carb timings etc they'd use some deductive reasoning, restrict carbs to around workout times, not overfeed on them and do so much more so that their diet is tailored to themselves without getting a generic number and applying it without a second thought.Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.